[Adrienne12]

Hi Leftyfromnyc

I'm browsing this forum from 2 years but registered today just to share my experience with you since i had the same problem before 4 years ,
my husband is a civil engineer working in Dubai , me and him live there from 7 years .... , he is nice and honest guy but dedicate himself
for his work ... and so far we had sex each 2-4 months .... , i felt i reached blacked road with him and took my decision
for divorce ... but one of my friends gave me step by step solutions , she is a doctor and have master degree in NLP ...,
Long Story Short we have cute girl now , and waiting the next prince .

I'm shy woman and the solutions too long to be written here , send me an email to adrienne_devost [at] yahoo.com
if you want to talk , and pardon my English .

regards

[Leftyfromnyc]

Effy2014 - Thank you for your kind words. You're right again about it not being a power play. I did have a chat with him and he agrees that we need to get moving on the baby making activities. Let's see what happens.
I agree with you about the work issue. If there is communication then the work is not really an issue. I just don't want him to use work as an excuse to not communicate esp since communication can be uncomfortable sometimes. Now he does take my calls at work and when I have an issue now he drops everything and speaks with me to help comfort me/resolve the issue. We learned all this in therapy. I suppose in the grand scheme of things he has put in effort in his own way. Let's see how the baby thing goes. I told him today that we really need to take this seriously and that we need to get on with it. I will keep you posted!

[Leftyfromnyc]

Hi Leftyfromnyc

I'm browsing this forum from 2 years but registered today just to share my experience with you since i had the same problem before 4 years ,
my husband is a civil engineer working in Dubai , me and him live there from 7 years .... , he is nice and honest guy but dedicate himself
for his work ... and so far we had sex each 2-4 months .... , i felt i reached blacked road with him and took my decision
for divorce ... but one of my friends gave me step by step solutions , she is a doctor and have master degree in NLP ...,
Long Story Short we have cute girl now , and waiting the next prince .

I'm shy woman and the solutions too long to be written here , send me an email to adrienne_devost [at] yahoo.com
if you want to talk , and pardon my English .

regards

Hi Adrienne,
Nice to meet you! Good to hear that you were able to get your issues resolved. I wonder if there is a way for us to send messages through this website. Honestly, I like the anonymity that it allows us to have.
What is NLP?
Congrats on the girl and your upcoming baby boy!

[pikesall]

We had a similar issue, but it wasn't me. He had some issues and didn't want to discuss them -- pride or something like that! Lol.

Kidding aside, is it possible that your husband is suffering from erectile dysfunction? Just from personal experience sometimes men don't like to discuss that issue.

[Leftyfromnyc]

Pikesall- I didn't even think about that. He did say that when he is stressed from work etc he has some problems. I'll investigate. Even so, I wish he would take the initiative to see a doctor, but I guess the pride thing would hold him back.

[Adrienne12]

Hi Adrienne,
Nice to meet you! Good to hear that you were able to get your issues resolved. I wonder if there is a way for us to send messages through this website. Honestly, I like the anonymity that it allows us to have.
What is NLP?
Congrats on the girl and your upcoming baby boy!

Thank you , NLP is Neuro-linguistic_programming , about how forum pm works
sorry so far i know how to use my browser .