Small guestures of intimacy

[MFortress]

Been with my guy for 3 years & we recently got married. But he has this thing with the little intimacy moments. He wants more of them. Sad to say, i have never been with anyone that wanted intimacy other than sex.

Any ideas of things that i could do for him? Any little things that may help spice up the sex life would be helpful too.

[atskitty2]

That could mean many things. Do you mean that he just likes affection fthroughout the day?
Have you asked him what gestures he finds meaningful?

[MFortress]

atskitty2
This has come up before with him, but it seems embarrassing to me. He wants picture texts, & sexy talk during our work day. I'm not overly comfortable with my body, but he did marry me, maybe i need to get over it.
I'm just trying to get any ideas of little intimate gestures that i can do for him. I'm a little lost & embarrassed that at my age I have to do research on how to please my man.

[amy40]

atskitty2
I'm a little lost & embarrassed that at my age I have to do research on how to please my man.

welcome to forum!
how old are you?

[atskitty2]

Nothing to be embarrassed about at all. It's just something that you may need help learning to express yourself in a different way, to please him.

So he wants nudes? Or sexy poses or what? Honestly I would struggle with this as well. Spending the time through the day to do all that would exhaust me, and quite honestly I would rarely have time to stop and go do something like this.

Coming up with new, fresh ideas would get difficult after awhile.
Is pornography a part of your sex life or is he using it?
Just curious.
I will check back, as it's a bit too early for my mind to come up with interesting ideas!

[Stillness]

We try to get skin-on-skin contact regularly. It's kind of cool to even a few seconds of bonding like that before work.

[MFortress]

amy40.....I will be 39 in a month

[amy40]

I'm a little lost & embarrassed that at my age I have to do research on how to please my man.

don't think age has anything to do with it after all you are newly married and getting used to it
it's a big change and any big change is stressful
be honest with him and tell him you find it it stressful coming home after work and see if he has any ideas to decrease your stress
he's your life partner now so share with him

I was nervous for our honeymoon to end and was afraid to return and start being a wife, so you are not alone

[Popcorn&Candy]

Just be affectionate and yourself. Be confident with yourself and take his lead. You just need to be comfortable with him. You've made a connection and just need to use that connection. Talk to him: find out what he wants. If you're worried about something, tell him. And tell him how you're feeling and what you want from him. It's as easy as pie.