Until 2 weeks ago my husband has never suffered from erectile dysfunction. In fact he is always "ready" as soon as or before me. One night 2 weeks ago he came home from work on our "sex night" and we retired to the bedroom. When we undressed I know something was wrong, his penis which had always been up and ready before was hanging down limp. At first I thought he must be sick and felt his head, no sign of fervor. I ask him if he was ok and if he wanted to have sex. He just said he was ok and yes lets do it. It took me about 10 minutes to get him erect enough to be able to penetrate me. Then he kept on deep stroking me, which always makes him finish quick. This time he couldn't finish and finally after 15 or more minutes, he went limp. I just hugged him and said is was ok, we could try again tomorrow.
Tomorrow came I decided to let him initiate and never mentioned anything, we just talked, I got dressed for work and kissed me good bye and went to work. This went on all week and on Saturday night, we were both off work, we had dinner with Kiyomi and sit on the couch to watch a movie. It was a warm night and Kiyomi was dressed in a tank top and shorts. I noticed him checking her out several times. So I went over and sit on his lap. Sure enough he was hard. He could get hard just by looking at her but not when I was naked sitting on his stomach in bed. Something was wrong and I was getting suspicious, I couldn't believe he was involved with Kiyomi but what about someone else. He is a policeman, I know he had a female partner for a while but now he had a new partner that I have never met.
That night we went to bed, we had sex but he was not as erect as usual, which was usually like a wooden pole. And after he finished, he got limp before even pulling out.
I don't know what to do, he might have some medical reason for this or he might just be getting tired of me. Or, he might be having sex with someone else he was more interested in. Should I just ask him what's wrong and encourage him to see a doctor? In the last 2 weeks we have only had sex 3 times, he usually had to have it every other night. I even talked this over with my girlfriend, Kiyomi, she is a life long lesbian and wasn't much help other than to sty he should see a doctor. I had never thought I would ever have this problem and don't know what to do.
Tomorrow came I decided to let him initiate and never mentioned anything, we just talked, I got dressed for work and kissed me good bye and went to work. This went on all week and on Saturday night, we were both off work, we had dinner with Kiyomi and sit on the couch to watch a movie. It was a warm night and Kiyomi was dressed in a tank top and shorts. I noticed him checking her out several times. So I went over and sit on his lap. Sure enough he was hard. He could get hard just by looking at her but not when I was naked sitting on his stomach in bed. Something was wrong and I was getting suspicious, I couldn't believe he was involved with Kiyomi but what about someone else. He is a policeman, I know he had a female partner for a while but now he had a new partner that I have never met.
That night we went to bed, we had sex but he was not as erect as usual, which was usually like a wooden pole. And after he finished, he got limp before even pulling out.
I don't know what to do, he might have some medical reason for this or he might just be getting tired of me. Or, he might be having sex with someone else he was more interested in. Should I just ask him what's wrong and encourage him to see a doctor? In the last 2 weeks we have only had sex 3 times, he usually had to have it every other night. I even talked this over with my girlfriend, Kiyomi, she is a life long lesbian and wasn't much help other than to sty he should see a doctor. I had never thought I would ever have this problem and don't know what to do.
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