[Ray7angel]

Really not sure I am but I’m gonna say it has something to do with 10 1/2 months after my vasectomy we had another daughter

[Ray7angel]

I guess something I also left out was after our third daughter was born 11 months later my son and his wife got into drugs the state took their child away and my wife and I ended up raising him for about five years they finally got their stuff together and we sent him back in November to live with him

[atskitty2]

This is a LOT of pretty major stuff that she managed for many years without the onset of depression. Has she had a full diagnostic work-up to be sure there's nothing physical going on as well, influencing the mental health decline? Just a thought. She is at an age where hormonal shifts could greatly affect her moods and chemistry in her body. Have other changes been ruled out?
In my experience, that's not something the docs may look at without pushing them a bit. Often they don't take a whole-person approach to treatment, and rather focus on the body system within their training. Something else to think about.

[Ray7angel]

Yeah we’ve had her to the emergency room several times and they continue to look for things a lot about $40,000 worth and no insurance and it always comes back to depression with anxiety

[Ray7angel]

My grandson was born 16 days before my third daughter so at 11 months old we got him and when they were three the fourth daughter cane so it’s like having twins and then another one so I guess that could be pretty stressful also

[atskitty2]

Anxiety and depression can do harm in many ways. Sounds like she held herself together for a long time and it eventually overwhelmed her.

What are your discussions like, between the two of you?

[Ray7angel]

We talked all the time dinner movies that night left the kids with mom until this other person came into the picture and now she just doesn’t seem to have time anymore

[Ray7angel]

We talked all the time dinner movies date night left the kids with mom until this other person came into the picture and now she just doesn’t seem to have time anymore

[Ray7angel]

And this woman that comes around to hang out with my wife is kind of a wacko .She talks to this therapeutic psychiatrist on the phone out someway that tells her how to touch yourself and rub her self and massage and this makes your headaches go away and makes her feel better and she’s trying to encourage my wife to see this man and it’s really beginning to get stressful for me when she does this

[Ray7angel]

I know it sounds stupid, but she’s talked several of her” friends”into calling this Greg because it get her discounts