[stella5]

Thanks for the feedback everyone! I fear it may be true that we are just not right for each other but I suppose I don't have to tell you all that it is very difficult to walk away from somebody when 80% of the time they are a dream. As a follow-up, he was indeed stressed and it was about something relatively big that he wasn't telling me that came out a few days later - he's going to have to be away for 3 months and is leaving soon and hadn't told me though he'd been planning it for months. SO, there's that. I was not being a crazy anxious clinger-type....my senses were on point.

[Popcorn&Candy]

I agree with both Texasred and Beautiful Disaster: talking things to death won't help. I do believe there is only so far talking can go. I also agree that no matter what you do, you'll never be right for him. If you can't be yourself in a relationship, you're in the wrong relationship. Don't be a peg in a square hole.