In my opinion it's as simple as our society equating body hair with masculinity. Women don't want to look masculine and men don't want women to so body hair becomes something to be removed.
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I cannot speak for all men, but I love a woman who looks like a woman. The completely shaved look reminds me of a little girl, and that's a complete turn off. In fact, I do not feel comfortable with a woman who does not look like a woman. I have come up with excuses to not be with them.
I do prefer women who are groomed, which means the bikini line. But here again, it's unconscionable to expect a woman to always be attentive, especially in winter. After all, God put hair there for a reason.
I have never been turned off by women's body hair because that's the way God created the fairer sex, all of us for that matter. However, I do prefer a woman who shaves her armpits and legs, but if she were to miss a few days, I can accept that. No man can rationally expect perfection. And women lead hectic lives so, of course, just like men, they will be expected to miss a few days once in a while.
I believe that women worry about body hair more than men.
Wishing you well,
TaosComment
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I recently shaved it all. I didn't tell my fiance; I just let him discover it on his own. The expression on his face was priceless - it was like he'd just received the greatest gift he could ever imagine. Sex since then has been amazing for both of us and I'm wanting it at least once a day. I don't know whether I'll keep it this way, but for now it's a lot of fun!Comment
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Well for me personnaly I prefer my wife shaved. Of course she only occasionaly does this. I feel that part of my wife's body is very beautiful and rather it not be covered up. She in no way looks like a child to me, but a fully developed woman. I also enjoy performing oral and do not care to fight the hair.
BTW I also keep myself very trimmed at a minimum as I feel its the polite thing to do, which she appreciates.Comment
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I know I prefer the underneath gone because it feels nicer during oral sex. I like all looks tho and just do whatever I feel like. I know I don't like flossing or swallowing pubes when I go down so my bf trims and shaves his balls so I don't mind making an effort for him. He's just always done that tho not because I asked him too. For me it's just the oral sex thing, I don't want to suck on hairy balls and my bf wouldn't refuse to do me if I was hairy but it'd be alot nicer for us both if I had. Laser makes shaving easier and I occasionally get it all waxed off. I don't understand ppl thinking a Brazilian reminds them of little girls u don't look at little girls so why would it remind u of one? I don't think of little boys when I see my bfs shaved balls! Why is it that a mature form of a woman with bare skin correlates to a pre pubescent girl but a smooth penis area is still just a guys downstairs.. Women are viewed on so many different levels and categories when it comes to their bodies and shoulds and shouldnts it really annoys meIf I knew where I was going I would already be there
I wish I had more time. Judicious, beautiful, augmented, whatever.
I've always been afraid to die, but I think I'm more afraid to live. (BC, SP)
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I'm men. I definitely say i prefer the hair. it look more natural.Comment
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I am a man. I strongly prefer natural, i.e. untrimmed and unshaved, the hairier the better. It's more of a turn-on, but then I like unshaved armpits, treasure trails, and actually even hairy legs on women. All in all, I think women are just about perfect and they don't need too much fixing to get my attention. I won't turn down a bald , but a full bush is not only more appealing to the smell, it is more fun to eat. I may be in the minority of men though, but I don't really think a lot of men today actually count as grown-ups.Comment
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I'm a male and prefer my wife to be neatly trimmed-preferably on the shorter side BUT it's her body and can do as she pleases. I would never tell her how to take care of herself. Most of the time she is neatly trimmed (as I am) but once in a while it will be a little longer or shaved-don't mind the variety at all!Comment
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When I hit puberty and started growing my first pubic hairs, I was very proud, because I felt like it was another step closer to adulthood. Notice I said adulthood rather than manhood, because all sexually mature humans have body hair, and I so I don't think body hair is a matter of masculinity. Children don't have body hair, and so I can understand why some people make the comparison between a shaved/waxed vagina and a prepubescent girl. Though, to be fair, women also grow hair on their legs, but many of them shave or wax that hair off, and you never hear anyone say that it reminds them of the legs of a prepubescent girl.I don't understand ppl thinking a Brazilian reminds them of little girls u don't look at little girls so why would it remind u of one? I don't think of little boys when I see my bfs shaved balls! Why is it that a mature form of a woman with bare skin correlates to a pre pubescent girl but a smooth penis area is still just a guys downstairs.. Women are viewed on so many different levels and categories when it comes to their bodies and shoulds and shouldnts it really annoys me
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