[Jlaud]

Hi all, I was looking online for awhile and found a picture that resembles what my own "area" looks like... I've always had so much trouble inserting ANYTHING inside of me. Haven't had sex yet; tried, no success.. Actually the most success I've ever had was my boyfriend's pinky finger to about a knuckle and a half deep. But usually it burns.. and after about 20 seconds of him holding it in there, I got a little out of the mood and he said my muscles seemed to clamp shut on his finger..

Well, I think my hymen is super tough.. i've researched vaginismus and all that and to my knowledge I have absolutely no sexual trama or history of abuse.. Yes, i've had some really weird past experiences, but none of which has scarred me. I just think that partially, maybe my muscles do contract a bit with penetration, maybe too much, BUT my hymen is really tight and bigger than it should be; at least that's what I think..

Here's a picture I found online. Is this little thing around the opening the hymen? If so, then I probably do need that surgery, as I am 19 and have tried to insert things to stretch it but nothing has worked. Sex hasn't torn it, and I think I will need the surgery to ever have sex or kids..

Thank you all

LINK CONTAINS REAL PICTURE of (I think, hoping for confirmation) a hymen! Don't click if you're going to get in trouble or shouldn't be!

Edit link - Outbound links are not allowed on this Forum

[jen1447]

^ I wouldn't click on that.

[Stillness]

Too late! My computer is melting! What should I d...

[Jlaud]

Yeah don't click it; it's not even working anymore -.- I basically used snippet tool to get a picture of it from my screen, then copied it as a jpg from paint, then opened it as a URL. But it's not working I guess... oh well. Thanks

[Jlaud]

How do I delete this thread?

[Motorguy]

^ I wouldn't click on that.

You think no way Jose.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

No need to delete the thread, we don't delete threads in any event. Not everyone knows whether or not their hymen is broken, some ladies don't even feel it, they don't bleed why are you so concerned? I honestly think that you are concerned for no reason and will be able to have children.

If you are worried, go and have it checked out by a Doctor .