[Angelic Babe]

Hi guys, i've talked to my friends about this very question and all they say is "it's sex, thats all that matters". I feel that foreplay could be a great experience. My bf and i have been together for 1 year, had sex not foreplay. I'm wondering if we should include foreplay in our night time activities?
what do you think?

[Stryker814]

Im a guy and I think foreplay is very important. Me and my g/f use forelplay alot 1. because she is a virgin and I cant fit and it hurts her alot when we try and 2. because it makes you want the sex so much more. Thats my 2 cents

[thack]

Foreplay is very important, and highly underestimated to enhance a good sensual connection during sex. It helps 1, build the anticipation to the actual sex, and 2, get both of you warmed up and comfortable in your own skin, which will let you both enjoy it that much more.

There are plenty of resources out there on how to make foreplay more fun, and more exciting, and just all sorts of good stuff.

But yeah, definitely important!

[SorridLives]

Foreplay makes things a lot more exciting and interesting...unless you are already "there" and very ready....then those times are fine el naturale.

[coldplay_rulz]

yeah im the same, If i am the toey one and im sitting there horny as , then all i need to do is touch his penis and he gets the hint lol, it usually straight up and i dont need any prepping.

but when we decide to have sex unexpectantly, we go at foreplay for a good half hour, especially when its hard for we to get wet. (which is usually the case)

[Guest]

foreplay is great. so much can be achieved let alone the fun you both can have. i think that the more foreplay you have the more exciting things are.
foreplay can range for a short time to hours. the body is a beautiful work of art, so to speak. it needs to be explored, teased, tickled, and so much more.
before the encounter of fulfillment, a nice session of foreplay, teasing gets the juices flowing and gets things wild. things become intense and you can actually have a bigger/better orgasm, and sometimes multiple if your body can handle it. then you can even it after you are finished with main activity.
i most deff. say you should try next time. it is most enjoyable.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I think too many people don't understand the importance, intimacy is so hard to find with someone..

It goes beyond foreplay, I think.

It is foreplay with "honestly", "lust" and the will and desire to "want".

It shouldn't be a "chore" one whereby I MUST in order for it to be wild and full-on, I think that, that can off course be the end result, lets face it, but if it is purely a "game" of how to get a person higher? All games end.

I think foreplay should be conducted with the understanding, intention, of love....

That's hard, if it's done for a one night stand.. I am not saying that I am happy with that concept, I am not, rather be on my own and deal with it.

But, I suspect that some "players" will aim at the intentions of what they can get out of it, mind blowing "f u c ...." result and be pleased with themselves.

To many people don't appreciate the "intimacy" look in the eyes, desire of that person and do to please for the will and desire of "love" in that relationship.

Commonsense asked: Do you say I love you during sex?

To me, with intimacy of love, and foreplay with that all in mind, you not only would say it but your body would quiver and go into spasms feeling it, guess i am viewing it from a deeper level.

But, I'm like that.

The actual lust/love/sensual you can comprehend from that experience would be awesome.

I say would, because lol, my relationships have either been a little bit, horney must do NOW, or to try "body language" foreplay , talk, to GET.. lol..

Find me THE MAN with the WOMAN whom understand it all and do, and i will truly say you are blessed, for all the right reasons, done with love and commitment, respect and anticipation, excitement and adventure.........

CW

[Angelic Babe]

wow, all that's got me in "the mood" now. Lol. one more question, is it possible to get orgasms from foreplay? I think it was mentioned somewhere, but i'm not really understanding how. ( For those who havn't guessed yet i hav never had an orgasm)

[silvertae]

Foreplay is a must for me both in order to get turned on and to feel close to my boyfriend.

Sure you can get orgasms from foreplay, but I suspect many people define foreplay differently. For example, where is the line drawn between foreplay and sex for a lesbian couple that doesn't engage in any strap-on penetration? For some people oral sex counts as "sex" while for others it's just foreplay. You'll have to keep experimenting to see what might get you close to orgasm.

[Hystorm]

Hi guys, i've talked to my friends about this very question and all they say is "it's sex, thats all that matters". I feel that foreplay could be a great experience. My bf and i have been together for 1 year, had sex not foreplay. I'm wondering if we should include foreplay in our night time activities?
what do you think?

Your kidding right? You just wanted to have something to post about right?
I mean seriously, you are asking if oral, etc is even important?

For me, its the most fun part of sex!!!

I could spend days working on the wife if she would let me!
I personally don’t need or want any pre-stuff as I would prob. go too soon.
But a women, now there is a creature that needs to have the iron warmed up to achieve orgasm. Guys are like a light switch. Flip on and away he goes. A women needs to be coaxed, convinced she needs an orgasm. Once she fired up, watch out...you let the beast out and you better finish her or there will be to pay!

Have fun.