[mmss20]

Hi,

I am a beginner to all this. I am seeing a man who arouses me and his simple touch makes me wet. This is not about the real sex but about the initial advances. I need help for these....

1) I have no idea how to respond to his touches. My body responds, but fear stops me from responding naturally. So I need to know how to respond to feel more confident.

2) I kiss him but I do not know how to proceed further. Caress him? even his ? or how should it be?

3) One more thing, what can I talk during his advances? dirty talk or how to praise him....can u guide me with some examples.

Please help me!

Thanks,
Scurry

[shweedart]

1) Just go with the flow, your obviously attracted to him so just let your inner mojo go!

2)put your hand up his shirt, put your hand on the bottom of his back whilst your kissing, then if the kisses heat up move your hands round to the front, even if its just his waistline. Then if you feel more comfortable...you know where to move them to. It should be however you want it to be

3)Until your more experienced with him i think not using words is the key, for now body language and noises. Heavy breathing, little moans...sexy noises, not over the top porno noises but just 'hints' that your getting into it. Don't worry about talking dirty or anything like that for now, one step at a time

[silvertae]

Shweedart has good advice. Just put your arms around him. Moan when you feel good. Put your hands in his hair. Rub his back. Run your hands over his rear end. From there, just follow his lead!

[Hystorm]

That should not be your department or concern. Unless he is not doing anything to advance the session, then I guess you would have to attack him. I see no problem with you simply, slowly sliding your hand or hands into his pants and softly discover his manhood. I know this would be fine and even invited with me.

I guess I should add, once you have his schlong in your hands or in your control sort-to-speak, he will respond in kind and do the same to you and get the whole fabulous event rolling. That is assuming he's a typical guy. If he is a rather shy guy, you may have to proceed with everything. Just know most guys love it. Some men are turned off by a women’s advance when they are the ones that wanted to do it, but it’s all good.

Have fun.

[thack]

indeed, gotta say I would agree with all of the above.

[mmss20]

Thanks for all your responses. That is a real guide and boosted my confidence..... Wish me luck to move on

[mmss20]

hey,
He feels keeping mum discourages him. So can u tell me what to talk? any help there