[CHANDLERS WISH]

wow, that's intense. Probably true for some guys, but certainly not all.

Think silvertae is referring to that "one guy" who "insists" he is going to do it........ Answering therefore that particular question...

[CHANDLERS WISH]

to me, marriage is just a legal paper. you can be married without being "married". (does any one follow me?) it's just that i believe that sex is a completely beautiful thing between two people

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I am 45 "young" way young... And, I totally agree... Marriage is a piece of paper means nothing, what means something is the "soul connection" between two people, whom love each other and want to be together, for life... Sex is completely beautiful between two people... I believe the word you want though is "love" .

Sex is sex... If we want sex, easy, no way any girl can't walk out that door any not get it if that is all she is after, granted harder for the man.

Being "intimate" with your partner ,you love is a whole different thing..

As for men wanting to take your virginity?

I think it's more "boys" than men... Alot of "men" would be honoured and never push, a lot of "boys" love to brag.. Makes them feel like a man.

CW

[SinisterUrge]

But the whole concept of it being a good thing to marry a virgin somehow got misconstrued by modern society as sleeping with a virgin is desirable. I've never been with a virgin myself, but I've heard that usually its not all that great. I think some guys think that a virgin will be extra tight and so it will feel good, but that seems pretty perverted.

Yeah, not big on virgins myself. Its an experience best described as "having sex with a deer caught in some headlights".

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Yeah, not big on virgins myself. Its an experience best described as "having sex with a deer caught in some headlights".

Like that? lol.

You have a way sometimes..

CW

[reilu]

I'LL BE A DEER IN HEADLIGHTS!!??? eh....now you're making me scared. but everyone is a virgin at first. so every one is inexperienced once. oh well. i'll deal with it when it happens. deer in headlights......

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I'LL BE A DEER IN HEADLIGHTS!!??? eh....now you're making me scared. but everyone is a virgin at first. so every one is inexperienced once. oh well. i'll deal with it when it happens. deer in headlights......

I know, SinisterUrge sounded rude, but look at the name? Been here a long time, has a way with words.....

You will be no such thing... And, don't take that joke to heart, for that is what it was okay, hense my reply... Life should not be totally all serious..

You will be an amazing woman in love, with a guy who equally loves you back... To be honest, that is a beautiful thing...

You can also google and read and see the different things that may happen and you may feel as well, to be more prepared but the guy you are talking about will love you... And, that is how the whole experience will feel.

I think Sinister is more talking about the fact that he prefers experience.

CW

[reilu]

alright. i have to admit i really am scared though. i know what all happens...you know, all the things that you hear. i'm not completely naive. but i still feel like i'll be in over my head. but...love takes its course. i'm scared but am really excited for when this time will begin. HEAR THAT SINISTERURGE!? EXPERIENCE ISN"T EVERYTHING!!! lol jk

[CHANDLERS WISH]

alright. i have to admit i really am scared though. i know what all happens...you know, all the things that you hear. i'm not completely naive. but i still feel like i'll be in over my head. but...love takes its course. i'm scared but am really excited for when this time will begin. HEAR THAT SINISTERURGE!? EXPERIENCE ISN"T EVERYTHING!!! lol jk

HAHAHA.. She has a sense of humor

Course you should be both... Excited and Scared... But, but, but, to be in love you would have been going out with him for a while, hopefully a fair while, then you know that he wants you for you, not that.

And, soooo you will be in love, smitten and so will he and I bet he will be scared and excited too... Because he waited so long for someone like you.

Plenty of time i think...

CW

[WildChild]

Just take it slow, learn what arouses you and how to pleasure yourself. When you find the right man - that doesn't have to be one you'll be with forever but one who is right for that time- he should take delight in arousing you and bring you to a state of desire where it will be a good experience. Some women find it painful the first time or two but many don't, so don't have expectations that way, you will have your own experience, not anyone else's. As you grow in experience it just gets better and better.

[SinisterUrge]

HEAR THAT SINISTERURGE!? EXPERIENCE ISN"T EVERYTHING!!! lol jk

I have to admit I'll might have to pick creativity over experience in some cases.