[Livelaughlove]

Well, I can't imagine either situations. They seem unrealistic for me. Never been with a person who was in love or was head over heels in like with me before,

But if it ever happened I would go with the more skillful guy. but in the real world, there's no way of me knowing this and surely no guarantee i'd find a guy like that. so i'd stay with whoever i had whether they were skillful or not. as long as they were a good provider and looked after me that is enough.

OK now were getting somewhere. haha

I can guarantee you that its happened several times in your lifetime.

sometimes its just hard for men to expose how they feel because like you they fear of not having those same feelings reciprocated therefore being alone.


So your telling me That you would stay with a man out of FEAR OF BEING ALONE. Now is that happiness or fulfilling?

Also your looking for the man to provide security and safety What if I was to tell you that those are just illusions and the only way to truely FEEL happy and secure is to find it within yourself.

We all have this power. In your case your using your powerful mind against you.

Please read the book The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment by Eckhart Tolle, Russell E. Dicarlo

It will help you beyond your wildest imagination.

Live laugh and love

[SinisterUrge]

Ohhh noooo WC not the P-word! Haha.
In the case that there is already an active thread about a subject, and in this case I know there is, you should post there rather than opening a new thread ... netiquette.

If that were true there would be twelve threads on this website and they would all be 13,000 pages long.

BJ's are considered "normal" by western society these days, while the big, bad P-word is still treated like it goes on in dungeons. There's a big difference in perception.

I'm guessing the 'p-word' probably makes up 25% of your local dungeon's business. The rest being divided up as: 40% foot worship, 20% spanking, 15% everything else. You might think being a dominatrix is an interesting job but the reality is doing the same few things every day with different guys. Pro-dommes typically only have a 18 month career before they burn-out.

[Livelaughlove]

LAME.



Think about analysing your basic gender roles and what you want out of life.

Anon I dont think her mindset is that of a gold digger rather one looking for security which is indicative of having low self esteem.

Nothing to be offended about sadfrigidgirl its just miscalibration

Live laugh and love

[SadFrigidGirl]

OK now were getting somewhere. haha

I can guarantee you that its happened several times in your lifetime.

sometimes its just hard for men to expose how they feel because like you they fear of not having those same feelings reciprocated therefore being alone.


So your telling me That you would stay with a man out of FEAR OF BEING ALONE. Now is that happiness or fulfilling?

Also your looking for the man to provide security and safety What if I was to tell you that those are just illusions and the only way to truely FEEL happy and secure is to find it within yourself.

We all have this power. In your case your using your powerful mind against you.

Please read the book The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment by Eckhart Tolle, Russell E. Dicarlo

It will help you beyond your wildest imagination.

Live laugh and love

Some people don't find relaitonships as easy as others. The last boyfriend I had was almost 2-3 years ago, I just don't have the kind of personality that pops out to people right away. Or maybe it's something else. I knwo you have folks who can jump from one relationship to another, but for people like me it's not easy. If I get a guy that doesn't like to do certian things I would compromise and just be happy that he cares and loves me.

Yes, I do get sad that I don't enjoy intercourse but if I get into a relationship that is one thing that I know I will have to do. Even though I don't like it, it's the one thing that I'll do because I do want children some day and intercourse is more important than the other acts. Anything too kinky or out there I won't do

[Livelaughlove]

Some people don't find relaitonships as easy as others. The last boyfriend I had was almost 2-3 years ago, I just don't have the kind of personality that pops out to people right away. Or maybe it's something else. I knwo you have folks who can jump from one relationship to another, but for people like me it's not easy. If I get a guy that doesn't like to do certian things I would compromise and just be happy that he cares and loves me.

Yes, I do get sad that I don't enjoy intercourse but if I get into a relationship that is one thing that I know I will have to do. Even though I don't like it, it's the one thing that I'll do because I do want children some day and intercourse is more important than the other acts. Anything too kinky or out there I won't do

OK but what if you had 5 guys fighting for you time and attention you would be less likely to tolerate behavior that is not fulfilling to you both sexually and mentally right?

IF thats the case then your mindset is that of mine in my earlier posts.

I want you to promise me that your going to get that book i recommended today and start reading it.

If you make a post saying you promise then you will make my day. but you have to stand by your word.

How about it?

Live laugh and love

[SadFrigidGirl]

Okay, I'll rent the book from the library. Is it supposed to help me get a boyfriend though?

[SinisterUrge]

But like everything else in life You can't expect the man of your dreams to knock on your doorstep tonight.

Not without a really good craigslist ad.

[anonymouswhitefemale]

That's what I want out of a man, who are you to tell me it's lame?

I am the appointed judge of interpersonal relationships.

[cstevensg]

I think if a woman doesn't want to give head there is something wrong with the relationship. Personally I have never had to ask a girl to do that for me, but part of that might be a girl has never had to ask me to go down on them.

Keep in mind I thought eating a girl out was sick and pointless for a long time, until I met the right girl, then it was nothing but enjoyable.

Also I most likely would not date a girl who refused to do that. Refusing to participate in one of the main sexual activities with someone you are close too says allot about your interest in sexual experiences.

[Rosslyn]

It's not a reason to throw away a relationship. What if the next woman you find gives a blowjob but doesn't want to have sex? What if you never find that balance?

lmao. I love giving blow jobs and I love sex. There's a balance. I do whatever my boyfriend likes to do, and I've loved almost all of it. There are more girls with the same attitude.