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    sounds like he has some issues for sure. i dont think its fair that he expects you to do the things he wont do for you. a womans body is not dirty or disgusting . seems like hes just making you do all the pleasuring.

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    • lovepuns
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      • Jan 2009
      • 13

      its totally unfair i agree....try making him watch a porno and see what he thinks about it as he watches and if you can get him to attempt it make sure you shave and have had a long sit down bath. it could be that he had a bad experience with it at some point and combined with OCD, it just makes it that much harder on you.

      in my experience the first girl i went down on was a very pretty who kept it shaved but when i would go down on her she had strong odor even after she just got out of the tub i just couldn't bring myself to do it, she would give me oral alot and i felt guilty and would tell her to force me because i wanted to, (ofcourse she didn't force me) but i couldn't do it anyway. it was just her body chemistry i guess and i do kind of have a strong sense of smell. after that relationship ended i was with another women and when i went down on her it was so much better. and i haven't had a bad experience since then. i don't want to be too graphic but with the first girl it wasn't a seafood smell it was more of a butt stink...seriously.

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      • cassie66
        Veteran Member
        • Dec 2008
        • 333

        he wont watch porno ever he thinks its disgusting. he has always got some complaint. like a headache sore back etc and forever at the docs but theynever find anything wrong with him.

        he has told me he will never evergo down on me.
        im at a loss at what i can do,asthe more i mention it, themorehe gets angry and says im pressurising him.
        blaze is the messiah

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