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  • cassie66
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2008
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    i dont really think there is an answer for this. whats normal for some, is not for others. peronally i have a very high sex drive and could do it several times a day! alas my hubby is not always in themood so restricted to 5 times a week ish if im lucky when he s on the early shift, nothing in the week, as he s tired
    blaze is the messiah

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    • Taiga
      Junior Member
      • Jan 2009
      • 2

      I was in the exact same situation once. It annoyed me that he would get mad when I didnt give him sex or I wasnt in the mood. Its not fair and you need to communicate this to him. I know that it can be a turnoff when he does it and it makes it feel like a chore and ruins the feeling of sex. But as said before by others, make it exciting, tease, let him know when you want to AND WHEN YOU DONT! dont do it unless you want it! I personaly did it 2-4 times a week. and on hollidays maybe every day/2nd day depending. Its when you both want it, not just one of you. hope this helps

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