[Sexualgirl2009]

My husband is 10 years older then me. He is a great man and our sex life is great. That is part of my problem. You would think having great sex would satisfy me. NOPE! After great sex i want more.

The other night we had sex. And i was statified after we were done. Then like an hour later i was ready to go again. So then i got my viberater and masterbated. He felt like he didnt satisfy me. But he did. I just have a very hight sex drive.

I know alot of people would find this as a blessing. Not me. I think it is a curse. My husband cant keep up with me. I am scared cause i am not even in my sexual prime yet.

What can i do to lower my sex drive?

[SinisterUrge]

Gain 75lbs.

Of course the more practical choice is to have a boyfriend or two on the side.

[Sexualgirl2009]

why would i want to gain 75lbs? Yeah i already thought about the boyfriend on the side. I have had offers.

[sTyLeRock]

ummm no.

speak to doctor to reduce testostorome in your system,

or to get u on some anti-sex drug LOL

cheating isnt the answer

[DippityDoo]

I don't know, but I feel for you, I've had lots of times when I wished my sex drive wasn't so high.

But, I'm 41 now, and in the last few years it doesn't seem as 'dire' as it once did, which is a good thing, considering I'm apart from my bf for long stretches at a time.

It was unbearable in my mid-30's.

Are you on birth control? When I'm on the pill, it lowers. Not that anyone would want to take hormones to reduce sex drive; it doesn't seem like a healthy tradeoff.

Wouldn't mess with infidelity, either. Good luck!

[Richard S]

Maybe try having sex fewer times per week, but longer sessions. If your man is in good shape I don't see why he can't go for more stamina. It's happened to me a few times, where I found myself being the one who needed to keep up. Nothing wrong with that. Quite flattering actually, that she kept coming back for more.

It comes down to finding the right combination of diet and exercise. Both cardio and weight / muscular training are important, and I'll also vouch for supplements. But it's different for every guy. Some guys swear by one brand or another, while others don't have any luck with any of them. You need to experiment until you hit the right combination.

Also, don't forget to be a good wife. Be there for him emotionally when he's not in the mood. Give him oral "just because", not expecting intercourse in return. Let him know you value the relationship, apart from the sexual aspects. In other words, follow all the advice that is normally given to men.

Good luck.

[bmatthews]

i agree with the above post, try for longer sessions, that's what i have done and i think it definitely helps

[WildChild]

A good hard workout that gets you sweating can help, go run 5 miles when you feel like climbing the walls. LOL if nothing else you'll have more stamina

[Hopeless Dork]

I don't think you would need to try to lower your sex drive unless it was interfering with your life in such a way that you can't get anything else done. I'd just enjoy the sex you have with your husband, and masturbate when you want it and he can't perform, maybe ask him to help you do that or to hold you while you do that you can still have the intimacy.

[damd]

Why don't you play with Mr. Vibe first then go after your husband an hour later?