[cassie66]

i know how you feel, my sexdrirve is the same as yours, unfortunatley, my husbandsisnt. its incerdibly frustrating, i also ahve to use toys sometimes 5 times a day. husband says theirs somethign wrong with me and i need drugs, which is hurtful. i cannot help it. he desnt satsify me and has never made me have an orgasm.

[Sexualgirl2009]

I like this reply. I think i will try the longer sessions. I have actually started working out. I think part of my problem is that i am REALLY actracted to him. Its a good thing but it can be bad at times.

I am not a cheater so i wont be going that route.

Thanks for all your help!

[Sexualgirl2009]

YIKES! No that is not my problem. He does satisfy me. He has made me orgasm sometimes 3 times in one session. But i notice that when sex is really good it makes me want more. He doesnt tell me i need help. He says he likes it but it is hard to keep up at times. His job is very physical and so he is tired when he gets home from work. My job is mental so i guess i have more energy at the end of the day.

[WildChild]

Sounds like what you have is a saity issue. Just like if you eat quickly, without consciousness, you don't recognize when you are full. I've experienced this too when my emotional needs aren't met along with my physical needs. Sometimes I'm fine with the just sex thing - it can be fun (this is the kind of sex I refer to with the f word) but I also need the slower, more tender experience, which is an expression of connection, caring and love.

Have you looked at the Tantra? That teaches conscious love making. You may find that helps tremendously.

[Sexualgirl2009]

Ok. I think wildgirl just hit the nail on the head with this one. I am totally gonna talk to my husband tonight about this. I think you are right and i am gonna take your advice.

Thanks to all of you!

[Sexualgirl2009]

oops i mean wildchild.

[Guest]

have children!

once they get into their teens, it's the best birth control there is....

[DippityDoo]

I also think WildChild hit the nail on the head!

The first time in my life that I'm sexually satisfied is the first time I've ever had loving, connected sex with someone I totally love. And when we're apart, as we are a lot, I'm ok without having sex; something I never experienced before. I was constantly on edge, frustrated, feeling like I needed it.

I've told my guy that he was the first man that has ever satisfied me sexually; I guess I know why now!

[Sexualgirl2009]

NO1

I had have 2 children of my own and a step son. I also have my own business that keeps me very busy. My husband has a vasectomy which is the best birth control in the world.

[lime_lemur]

I'm sorry that it feels like a curse to you. You and I are at both extreme ends of the spectrum.. my problem is that 0 sex drive tends to result in no boyfriends. lol