[KSTXBOI]

I think men have a high sex drive no matter who the woman is but when a woman is in an emotional relationship their sex drive is just as high or higher than that of a man. That is my experience anyway.

[mymirrose]

I have a question, Have any of you ever been told that having sex multiple times makes him "sore"? I know I tried the "well, I can get you ready again" tactic, but then he says he is too sore for me to do that. Just wondering!

[Magnetism]

I have a question, Have any of you ever been told that having sex multiple times makes him "sore"? I know I tried the "well, I can get you ready again" tactic, but then he says he is too sore for me to do that. Just wondering!

Yeah, I'm sure it happens a lot. Having sex just once can make people feel sore the next day.

[Hopeless Dork]

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Any therapist will tell you that most of their promiscuous clients (women and men) aren't happy.

As a teenager, even though I had a high sex drive, being promiscous was never about the sex for me. I was never able to orgasm through sex back then, was always too nervous to even experience pleasure.

But I'd put myself through it time and again because for those few moments during the act, I was "special". I was the most important thing to that person at that time. Someone they'd ignore their phone for, I had their full attention on nothing but me .. if only even for 5 minutes.

[AuRob]

someone once told me that men peak at 21. I'm 29 and just can't think straight anymore, always have sex on the mind much more than when i was 21!!

and have noticed that ladies around my age (30) have very high labidos.

mmm, looking forward to when my GF gets to 30, i'm struggling, she can't keep up with me

[cassie66]

i heard that too.well im 42 and my sex drive is through the roof! my 32 yr old hubby just isnt bothered

[Guest]

My stbx would always pun that I could do it at the worse of times, like when I'm sick or something of that nature.

I tho't sex drive and sexual desire would be some what different so I looked it up and the term sex drive is defined as sexual desire. The reason I say all this. There are times when I am aroused and really want it like now or soon anyway. Then there is anytime if I'm approached by an SO and shown she is wanting it, that in it self gives me the desire, it turns me on that the woman would want me to please her, therefore I get pleased in return.

I see some of these woman here that say they have a strong sex drive where they seem to want it alot, that would turn me on right there (I'm not hitting on anyone) just making a statement. I envy the guy who has a woman that has a strong sex drive. For me it wouldn't matter how much she wanted it. Now granted, I can't just go on and on for hours but given a reasonable amount of time I'm ready to go!

Again tho, going against the definition that I gave, my sex drive and sexual desire has to be put into 2 categories, as stated above.

[Phoebee]

DH told me that without enough sex he get "blue balls" aches... After a lot of sex it feels similar but more spent. And his "need" for sex goes down. There is the refactory period which is the time between sex that seems to get longer as men age. I'm not sure what we are talking about.

[Guest]

There is the refactory period which is the time between sex that seems to get longer as men age.

Thx Phoebee, refractory is the word I was looking for but coudn't remember, and yes it's my experience it has taken longer as I get older

[Magnetism]

Someone told me that the peak for women just means that they've figured out what they like as they got older, and that younger women just go along with what their unskilled boyfriends are doing.

I admit when I was in my late teens, guys would give me a weird look when I told them to touch the clitoris, instead of them just jabbing their fingers in me...No offense to anyone. It made me wonder if I'm the only girl they met that said that.