[CHANDLERS WISH]

What he said


You may like bad boys but "users with disrespect?".

CW

[CeeElleCee]

hehehehe...u guys are all very right. I should be mad, but i dont even have the energy to be. But I'm so glad someone listened and understood. My dr's appt is on the 10th. keep ur fingers crosses that a moment of non=sense (haha) doesnt affect my health. <3 thanks everyone...so much...u dont know how much it helped to just have someone listen and not lecture me...i dont feel as if it was my fault, i had no idea...im smarter then that...thanks so much tho....

[Tuesday]

Try reading a book called 'why men love b*tches'. (Google it)

I know about rape, and one of the ways it can affect you is that you accept less than respectful treatment from a guy because your self worth has been damaged. Honestly, what I'm reading about here is a girl who sleeps with the wrong men, the men who have other women in their lives, the drunk men who would take advantage of you when you're unwell.....

And you don't even object at the time....I would have screamed my head off at him....'how ........dare you!!!'

I hope everything is all clear for you regarding your test, and for your own sake, make wiser choices regarding your sexual partners. God I sound like someone's mother, but you have to realise that you're worth more respect than that.

[Steph33]

I'm terribly sorry for your rape experience. To me he was no different than some pig in a subway, he should be sliced and you know where.

Sex without a condom feels better for both and especially men. But I would NEVER be with anyone "bare" without us both being checked. Herpes, VD and all the rest totally suck. But HIV kills. Simple as that. I never wanted any guy "to die for" literally. If they refuse to use a condom and you don't know his history or status, a right foot kick will move his nuts towards his throat so he can rethink the idea.

In the "old days" a shot fixed almost anything but those times are ancient history. I'm happy living with my BF and have no doubt we're both total loyal (and did exams in the start before sex). Now a safe feeling bonus that people probably never thought of years ago is to just have 1 lover. I use the pill since he can't feel enough to orgasm when wearing a condom no matter how long he tries. But we first tried probably tried every company and type that exists before me taking the pill. I'm safe with him so we're "bare" but that is the ONLY situation I ever would be. The with these idiots playing gambling games with your health (or life). "chances are" isn't good enough. Find a better class of guy or by a vibrator. You'll probably live longer.