[shweedart]

Well, laying in bed with my bf this morning all cozied up and we started kissing (and stuff) and he started to shuffle himself southwards....and....I stopped him yes! I know, its the first time ive ever stopped him doing anything! I'm fine with having sex in the morning that doesn't bother me but I guess I just didn't feel...clean? If that makes sense

Does it bother anyone else or just me?

[Angelikah]

I totally understand where you're coming from. I usually do not care either, but down there for the whole south of the boarder treat, nope not in the morning, INSTEAD what you can do is suggest a morning shower, those can turn into a lot of fun

Then you can feel a little more relaxed about south of the boarder activity, Hey just don't make the mistake I did and slip in tub,lol.

[shweedart]

oh good not just me then I just thought it was because I'm a very hygienic person...thought maybe it was me being a worrier lol


Yeah certainly wouldn't mind it in the shower but im only young and his family were in so we couldn't have one....boooo! But we're going away in September so that'll be a week of fun ...yes!

[skipper]

If he's ok w/ it, what's the harm? Ladies, we love your scent! If you are timid about this, how about excusing yourself to the bathroom and freshen up w/ one of those moist baby wipes type things? My wife does this on occasion. You can buy in a purse or jumbo size. I prefer the real her to the perfume of a baby wipe, but she likes the cleansing and they don't have a taste.

It seems such a shame to avoid an intimate encounter just because you haven't had your daily shower yet.

[Steph33]

It depends for my BF and I what we did the night before. If we made love in the evening and I showered before we slept, I often wake up to him having started breakfast down there without me. As someone said if you're both OK with it I see no harm and I certainly enjoy waking up to it. My guy loves the taste most anytime.

But if we woke up to have sex in the middle of the night with me then falling asleep again right away afterwards, I always make him let me shower first and he understands my rule on that (we don't use condoms). However, he sleeps very badly (apnea) and is up well before me every single day. Sometimes I am woken up by him loudly clapping his hands with the shower already running yelling "Let's go, having breakfast (meaning me) is the most important meal of the day." Some of those mornings I throw something at his groin, others I laugh and run for the shower.

[Angelikah]

ROTFLMAO!!! That's too funny

[shweedart]

Haha that's brilliant!
Still, if i don't feel spic and span down there I doubt i'll be into the task at hand. I explained to him earlier anyway and he said it was fine and made sense to him(we had sex instead so I doubt he'd object)...but also added that im silly

[Steph33]

Glad we gave you a chuckle though he'd turn beyond beet read if he knew this stuff was being read about even without our names.

My guy is 11 years older than me and the one thing he showed me that REALLY matters, over anything else, is to have a sense of humor about sex and laugh about it. If something goes wrong (I fell backwards off the bed bed with legs flailing a couple squirming with passion when he was giving me oral for example) he always makes me laugh about it. Sometimes that's more fun than the sex. He imitates my flailing when we're somewhere and nobody has a clue what he's doing or talking about except me. At the mall or most places I laugh, but at my parents he does get an elbow in the ribs.

The very FIRST sexy night outfit he ever got me was basically 3 cotton balls with some strings connecting them and the attached stockings. When he saw me in it he came at me like a guy dieing of thirst who just found a glass of ice tea. But when he "headed south" he got all tangeled up in the straps down there and couldn't get out and couldn't get what little there was off me. I almost peed myself from laughing.

If you've ever given your guy cause to laugh with love and want to get a chuckle in return, I've got one. My BF moans and then finally really groans loud (like he's almost being tortured) when he starts towards his orgasm and then finally does. And when he sometimes yells "this is all for you" just prior to his moment I bite my tognue till it nearly bleeds to not spoil it for him by laughing (its just one of his ways of saying I'm the only one).

I put a tape recorder on the floor next to my side of the bed and had the on/off cord and microphone taped to the sideboard. I recorded him during his mona thing and declaration of love. A couple days later he was outside walking our cats on a harnass in our apartment complex courtyard. I put 2 of our stereo speakers at a window pointed towards the courtyard and played the tape REAL loud. I tried to get a digital picture of his facial expressions but I was laughing so hard I couldn't operate the camera. It was classic. He was like a little kid looking for the boogey man for a week, checking under the bed and in closets for microphones before sex.

Keeping it fresh requires effort, consideration, wanting to give, and humor. That's what I've learned and feel matters most for great sex.

[cassie66]

it wouldnt bother me.
my morn activities involve having to cean the house and do all household jobs not fair

[WildChild]

If you have hygiene concerns make yourself a portable bidet. Get a plastic watering can (not the giant size) cut off the spout to about 4 to 6 inches. Keep in the bathroom, fill with warm water, sit on the toilet and use it rinse your girl parts. This is good idea regardless of activity, it keep you fresh and I understand is soothing for people with hemorriods.