[amaranthine]

My boyfriend has recently told me that he thinks it would be "hot" if I let him cum on my face.

I think this would be gross, not because it's specifically his semen, but because semen is slimy/sticky, and I simply don't want something of that consistency on my face.

Why is cumming on a girl's face so attractive or "hot" to guys? Am I unusual for saying NO WAY??

[golden_nemesis]

This is something a lot of guys find very hot.

I have not had it done to me, though I have had ejaculate sprayed on my stomach and butt. If my partner asked, I'd probably let him do a face shot. Maybe I'm a bit depraved, but I'd probably then rub my face along his stomach or chest then lick it off. You might want to just have a washcloth or baby wipe handy.

But you are definitely not alone in not wanting it done. Many women do not find the idea exciting at all. Nothing wrong with that. :-)

But if you are willing to give it a try, you will have one ecstatic boyfriend.

[Hopeless Dork]

I happen to enjoy this act with my boyfriend, a lot. He was hesitant to do it, even hesitant to ejaculate in my mouth at first... I think he thought I wouldn't like it or would find it humiliating or something but it turns me on with him. I have never desired any other guy I was with to do this and it would have grossed me out if they had brought it up. But he has awoken something in me I can't explain. I asked him to do it, begged him too and when he got comfortable with how comfortable I was with it, he likes it a lot.

I don't think of it as what it is, I know its not the tastiest thing on the planet organically, nor is the consistancy that appealing in general, but for some reason - his taste, his smell, the way it feels turns me on and satisfies me so much that I crave it from him.

I wish I could do it several times a day to him. But to me its feeling and tasting his orgasm, his pleasure.. that is what does it for me. Not the actual semen. It probably turns guys on for the same reason, that they know its not something that is actually like whip cream on tap or something... they know its naturally a bit off tasting and to see you lick it up, wear it, enjoy it anyway - they know you are into them, I think. It has got to make them feel pretty sexually desirable.

[amaranthine]

It makes sense, I guess. I don't let him cum in my mouth, either, though. I've had a couple drops in my mouth before, and it just doesn't taste good. I almost gagged, but luckily I had a bottle of lemonade handy, so I drank it until the salty flavor was gone.
I do like to watch him cum, though. When I give him head, he'll tell me to move right before he cums, and then I finish him off with my hand and watch him cum that way. It gets all over my hand, and sometimes up my arm, and that's enough for me.

[Richard S]

Mostly I would say it's because guys see it in porn movies and want to know what it's like in real life. Similar to cooking, a big part of it is the presentation. The image of a woman's upturned face, making eye contact as she takes him into her mouth is very erotic.

No two women approach it the same way. You need to find a way that works for you and make it your own. One option would be to allow him to come in your mouth, but instead of swallowing, allow it to fall out of your mouth and run down your chin. I'm just saying, you have all sorts of options here. It's the presentation and how you reveal yourself to him, the inner, private self that you show, that gets a man off, makes him feel special.

[WildChild]

Why not at least give it a try? It's not like it's something that can hurt you any way. I like that hot, slippery stuff. Do a search on the taste of ejaculate or sperm, there is a lot of info, a change in his diet can make a big difference.

[rcoreyus]

I'm a guy, and I've never understood the whole come-on-face appeal, but it seems harmless, so if he finds it exciting, why not. On the other hand, I would find an interrupted BJ very unsatisfying so finishing in her mouth means a lot to me (I don't know why, it just does). Of course my wife almost never does oral (once every few years), so it is mostly a moot point.

[Richard S]

The reason swallowing is important is because it symbolizes what happens during intercourse, that the man transfers his sperm to the woman and she accepts it into her body. it's satisfying on an instinctive level, one of the few things Freud was 100% right about.

Speaking as a guy, there are some women who just get it, who love making love to a man orally, it just flows from who they are. It can't be taught, it's just a gift that emerges as you gain sexual experience. Some women learn to act this way because they see how much guys like it, and that's OK too.

[mandee2007]

I love my hubby to death, I'm just not sure I would like it on my face....I've swallowed and my god it tastes bad lol but Idk....on my face isnt appealing....

[Hopeless Dork]

When men go down on us they pretty much wear our fluids on their face the entire time not just when we orgasm. If a guy stopped licking you every time you got too wet during the act and was like ew... I don't want that stuff to touch me.. and began just trying to use his hand from 3 feet of distance while making the ick face , his girlfriend would be mortified. I don't know why its hard for some women to understand why their SO would be offended by that.

Not saying everyone should swallow or wear their bf's semen lol.. just saying its probably best to handle it as courteous and sensitively as possible if you don't want to do that. They have feelings too.. I think Some of them anyway!