[fireman's_wife]

Hey there all...
myself and my hubby have been trying new things to spice up our sex lives.... we have been married for almost 7 years and after having a child things have gotten a little less excitable.... I have been wondering if anyone out there has any ideas.... also one more thing i was wondering if anyone has frozen lubricants before ?

[desperate for help]

first thing is first you need to tell your husband how lucky he is that you are willing to spice things up because if he reads on here alot of us myself included get zero unless its christmas come on dec 25

one of my best sexual memories came home from work did a nice dinner the wife went and had a shower and then as i was in the shower she got into a sexy number and started to use a vibrator as i entered the room hello
the rest you can figure out

lots of luck

p s there was a post a few days ago about a card game you might like to read to

[WildChild]

Well haven't gotten to use it yet but the LOML shared a while back the idea of glory hole really got him going. I got a nice, big, empty appliance box. I plan to cut a hole in it at the appropriate height and see what he makes of that.

[Irish Heart]

Have you tried changing the location of sexual activity? Initiating things when he's probably not expecting it? Take charge...tell him to hold onto the headboard and if he touches you stop you're doing (turnabout is fair play of course at a later date!).

[happy ending]

Well haven't gotten to use it yet but the LOML shared a while back the idea of glory hole really got him going. I got a nice, big, empty appliance box. I plan to cut a hole in it at the appropriate height and see what he makes of that.

i dont get it? what would you use it for?

[WildChild]

Look up "glory hole" and you'll see. Bsically it's a hole in the wall, the male puts his penis through it and gets a bj, hj or even intercourse. It wouldn't work with a real wall cause there's 2 sheets of dry wall and studs. But a heavy sheet of cardboard ought to work just fine.

[fireman's_wife]

thanks all.... if there are anymore suggestions please help ... implanning a special 7 ann. for a few weeks time!

[ThexMrs]

I'm sure people of all ages can appreciate pornography so that is one thought. Find something that turns you both on and watch it. You can even act out what they are doing.

If you don't have toys... Get some. I'm sure that he would enjoy watching you pleasure yourself for him. He may even want to use them on you.

Have sex in places other than the bedroom or bed.

Role play.

Get a sex game.

Handcuffs.

Blindfolds.

New positions.

[Steph33]

anywhere (literally) to do it is game

I'll wear anything he buys or finds and likes

any position is possible, don't think we haven't tried any, only limited by physical strength or height compatability

him releasing anywhere is possible

we're both dirty talkers and both get off on it

we've never needed or wanted porn, they're behind us in variety anyway

I've never been bored, and he's happy doing whatever I want (or tell him to do) at any time as long as I let him give me oral. He's a sweetie and very male, but submissive and likes me in control as much as I enjoy it.

Only thing neither of us will do is physically harm or cause pain/fear, neither of us into that area

Obscene phone calls and e-mailing him porn type photos of me gets a quick reaction, especially if he has to wait for me from work, etc

[jeffswifemichelle]

Put on a pair of panty hose and give him a foot job. He'll love it.