[hello_pitty]

Anal sex is good if you do it right and take your time. If at ANY TIME you're uncomfortable or it hurts, STOP. You can try again another time. Also golden rule...NEVER go from Anal to Vaginal sex, ever...even if you wash up afterwards. Bacteria from your anus could still be on the inside of his penis and could make you sick.

Good luck

[SarahSue]

Thanks for all the input. We did try it with lots of lube. It felt good, but we both decided the standard method and oral are much better for us.

[elise]

I happen to love anal sex. I find i get alot of pleasure out of it and it does have me have great orgasms. I do not find it 'Dirty", if your meaning is the penis covered in feces, the answer is not, at least not in my case. Slow penetration is necessary, often im the one to sit down on him, so i control the speed and pressure. Good luck.

[starjoy08]

I have tried it and I kinda like it. It is nice to changes things a bit. Take the advice of the others. It is important to do it the right way. I liked it just because it was different and he enjoyed it too. It makes me feel exotic.

[caterpillar79]

Wow! Anal sex is not in my book yet. BF and I agreed that it is an off-limits area for now. Maybe, just maybe, when the "right" moment, when we're more secure (as in with the "knot"???), we will eventually. I am guessing that he's just waiting for me to loosen up a bit, which he does all the time...you know, the one marshmallow - two marshmallows sort of thing...

[Hopeless Dork]

If you would have asked me when I was 18, 21, or even 25 would I entertain the thought of anal sex I would have undeniably said that I would never do something like that. In my mind it was also an off limits area.

But just right of 30, hormones surging like crazy, meeting the man of my dreams and falling in love, all inhibitions flying out the window... I want to experience him in every sexual way we can imagine. I initiated our experimentation with it... it was no where near as awfully painful as I imagined and it feels so naughty, and feels like I am doing something so special for him, giving him something I've never given another.

I feel like it shows him just how much I trust him, just how much I desire to please him and that turns me on like crazy. I am looking forward to exploring it further and finding out if I can experience the pleasure it brings some women.

[Madlena.r]

Hi girls
Anal sex is really bad idea.
First of all it leads to hemorrhoids and anal fissure.
Your colon muscle becomes weaker so you cant control your excrement.
Disease - anal is sure way to your husband chronic prostatitis. Here what i had found - (link edited) we did it with no condom !
Me and my husband bad experiment - dont make this mistake !!!
always use a condom. no anal sex!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

First of all it leads to hemorrhoids and anal fissure.

I have had the pleasure of hemorrhoids and it had "nothing to do with anal sex". What makes you think that?

I get what your saying as well as in "opening" that particular part of your body but not from "casual anal sex"...

But just because it was a bad mistake for you, doesn't make it the same for others or maybe you just needed to try again more open mindedly a few more times love.

CW

[CHANDLERS WISH]

) lol.. i heard a lot about this thing but not tried it yet and this is not good.. you will have your anal open and on the other side, you may not control things going out.. lol..

i suggest, only gay to men sex allowed to do this..

speaking of orgasm? I don't think, you'll feel any orgasm in it.. knowing that the orgasm of the girl is on the little thing in vaginal canal. female won't satisfied without entering to that canal..

Little sweet... It is about experimenting and being "free" to choose and letting "all" your inhibitions go. If you have not tried it, don't diss it, but then also don't do it with anyone, someone whom has tried it and someone whom loves you and you both want to try together.

Even if, "you can't control what goes out", lol, beautiful it won't matter in that instance cause you have experimented together.

Actually, I am aware that you do experience an orgasm, it's the "un-known" if your sensual, sexual and willing.. I half tried it, not fully and I was orgasmic but then I am a little sensual woman with openess.

Your cute.

CW

[Iseulda]

I agree with CW.

Hi girls
Anal sex is really bad idea.
First of all it leads to hemorrhoids and anal fissure.
Your colon muscle becomes weaker so you cant control your excrement.
Disease - anal is sure way to your husband chronic prostatitis. Here what i had found - (link edited) we did it with no condom !
Me and my husband bad experiment - dont make this mistake !!!
always use a condom. no anal sex!

This post is quite scary and is going to worry some readers, I'm sure.

I think it is fair to counter the above post by saying that many couples, gay and straight, practise anal sex quite regularly and do not suffer from hemorrhoids, fecal incontinence, fissures nor prostatitis. This has been the case for thousands of years. Anal sex is not a 'sure way' to any of those things.

Certainly it is not for some people - fortunately for them it is not compulsory