[CHANDLERS WISH]

3 months is not a long time, he may have gone through the "lust" stage, horny and now in a relationship of sorts.

Has he had trouble before with commitment?

Failing that what about work? Is he happy at work?

Lastly, sorry but do you bring this up to him in conversation? That can make him feel in-secure and well not perform as well..

Tell us a bit more so we can actually advice what we think without guessing.

CW

[mummyof2]

No no trouble of commitment there i dont think he would b like that at all. His wife just left him 14 months ago but everything seems to b ok with us. actually seems excellant apart from a few things in the bedroom. he spoils me absolutely mad otherwise we do talk about that issue a little bit he always brings it up like jokingly so that probly doesnt help. but past few nights things have been really good! we have worked out that if he starts on top he doesnt last long and if i start on top he can last forever! so not sure y that is.... hopefully these problems have gone