[panajigoa]

After doing it , almost daily except during her MC ,we sleep naked.
I am 42 and she is 38.....been together for 14 yrs.

We generally insert and go to sleep ..as getting O is not a big thing for us , touching our skin is more important to us ..u can say we r in more of this non ejaculative sex lol !

This non ejaculative sex retains ur stamina and u can continue in the game under the cover for a long long time

[WildChild]

The idea that ejaculating depleats a man has been around for a long time. I know that many tantrists support this. In real physical terms it isn't true, the male body is making more sperm all the time. However there is a chemical that released in men's bodies when they cum that relaxed them and may put them to sleep.

Each couple must find what is most satisfying for them. Personally I love to feel my man cumming inside me.

[Swiftus]

Look at every mammal on the planet. Almost every male experiences fatigue post ejaculation.

[MrPleazr]

I don't feel fatigue, maybe more relaxed, but I'm pretty much good to go... I love nooners.... If I go to sleep after sex, it's because it's at night and I've worked 10-12 hours, I'm just freakin' tired, LOL...Everyone is different I suppose...

I love to lay there inside her until I'm completely soft, but I gotta finish, LOL....

[panajigoa]

One thing we have noticed is that ejaculation DELAYS my next hard on ..otherwise it is hard with a little carress !

More over if i ejaculate daily it kills the spirit of Sex !..LOL

[Possibilities]

Lol, I have the equivalent to "non-ejaculative" sex all of the time. Sex is can still be extremely fulfilling even when it does not lead to orgasm. I find that as women (and as men) we assume the male must ejaculate for sex to be "successful" or "complete". I have no idea why because there is no way that I orgasm every single time I have sex and so I am perfectly content if my man experiences the same situation. I think a narrow minded man is one who assumes he should always cum.

[Steph33]

If he cums, my BF is wasted and either sleeps relatively soon if at night or will nap eventually if during the day. He'll play and go as long as I want, but last thing is when he releases as he's spent after that other than some small after play time he enjoys. If he holds it, it's like we didn't have sex. Might be age, but most men I've known are spent after they're spent. I'm opposite, after sex I could clean the whole house and run errands.

[Guest]

Depends on the time of the day. Morning sex gets me going and ready for the day....especially on the weekends when I can sleep in a bit longer.

After evening sex we just lie there a while and usually go to bed after, but I'd say I feel more "satisfied" after sex than tired.

[Chantalemma]

I would have to say I feel the same on evenign sex.. take a shower haev a little romance and then wash up and go to bed...I have never had sex with my bf without him cuming. It always ends there after he is done... that is it... I was jsut gettign revved up last night he came that was it, wash up and go to bed. Nothing more...Sometimes it is ok and other times it is a lot better.

[Hooster]

I came across this thread and I am dragging it back because I think it contains some very useful information. Sex can be incredibly good and fun without the man cumming. If you have plenty of time to enjoy each other it can be nice to break things down into sessions and the man can keep his strength up better by not having an orgasm after every one. Just try it, if your man agrees to it. Have intercourse with a difference, this time he is not having an orgasm. Then take a break and have more sex later. In the end when he does have an orgasm it will usually be a very good one. In the meantime the female partner is enjoying love making that is focused on making her happy and not the mans orgasm. As a man I find that sometimes just prolonging sex and keeping my energy up is more satisfying than banging my way to an orgasm. It can be an incredibly nice high and the feeling of satisfying the woman is really good.