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  • lee2009
    Member
    • May 2009
    • 17

    i didnt know wair to post this.

    i am 17 and i just noticed i got stretch marks on my bum and thighs it is really embarrassing i dont want my boyfriend to see me naked anymore. what can i do to get rid of them.or will they go away themselves.
    thank you
  • Chantalemma
    Senior Member
    • Apr 2009
    • 171

    It is only normal and it makes you real. There is cream you can buy at any pharmacy to make them faint and be lgihter but they will never just up and disappear. It is part of being a woman and being a real human being.

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    • Hopeless Dork
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2008
      • 4255

      Real men don't care about stretch marks. If your boyfriend complains about them, its time to get a better boyfriend. Katt Williams says it best when he talks about not caring about womens stretch marks and not understanding why girls get so upset about them. "You got stretch marks one of two ways -either you were small and got big or you were big and got small - either way we're 'bleeping', either way".
      Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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      • lee2009
        Member
        • May 2009
        • 17

        thank you chantelemma that really made me feel better.

        thank you hopeless dork,my boyfriend the same as you, he said he really does'nt care because he loves me and they dont make a diffrence.i feel so stupid about getting upset over it.

        thak you so much.

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        • MrPleazr
          Member
          • Jun 2009
          • 46

          My wife is tall and very skinny, childbirth was not kind to her. She has them all over her stomach and boobs. I really don't notice them, but once or twice we've played around with the camera and she was bothered by them. So the next time we did that, I made sure to photoshop them all out and didn't tell her about what I had done, she was so excited by those pictures that she wants me to take some more...She doesn't care if that ruins her chance at running for president, or Mrs. America...LOL

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          • Joy
            Veteran Member
            • Jul 2008
            • 618

            MrPleazer that was the most amazing thing you could have done for your wife! You took out all the flaws she beats herself up for everyday and showed her how beautiful she really is.

            Ya know that is how love grows in a relationship you keep up the good work and have fun takin lots of pic! YOU ROCK!

            lee2009 glad you got over this cause stretch marks are part of life and now you will never let them hold you back! Anyone who tries to tell ya different tell them to shove it

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            • Hopeless Dork
              Veteran Member
              • Dec 2008
              • 4255

              Originally posted by MrPleazr
              My wife is tall and very skinny, childbirth was not kind to her. She has them all over her stomach and boobs. I really don't notice them, but once or twice we've played around with the camera and she was bothered by them. So the next time we did that, I made sure to photoshop them all out and didn't tell her about what I had done, she was so excited by those pictures that she wants me to take some more...She doesn't care if that ruins her chance at running for president, or Mrs. America...LOL
              And the husband of the year award goes to....

              Seriously, that is just about the most thoughtful thing I have ever heard a man do for his woman. Not only do you think she is beautiful exactly as she is... but touching up her photo (like EVERY nude model on the internet has done to hers) was the kindest and sweetest action, really it was.

              Pictures aren't kind to the hottest of the hot without any noticible flaw, they still retouch those girls... so the average woman is not going to stand a chance feeling fantastic about her photos. I take dirty pictures for my bf all the time and out of every 100 i take, maybe I end up sending ONE... the others show too much of a stretch mark or something and I delete.

              I think what you did was so awesome, kudo's kudo's kudos.
              Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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              • MrPleazr
                Member
                • Jun 2009
                • 46

                Thanks, yall are too nice... I have to admit, I have my own interest in mind as well. If she likes the photos, I get to take more, LOL... and I get to look at them whenever I want, hehe...

                We've all seen those photos on the net that are less than flattering. I've figured out by looking at those, that certain angles can hide all kinds of flaws, if that's what you girls wanna call them. To me, they should be badges of honor, but whatever... Flat on the back, spread eagle, is not a sexy picture, not to me anyway...I like the artsier pictures better and they make her feel sexy... Black and white or sepia also help...

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                • WildChild
                  Banned
                  • Sep 2008
                  • 14142

                  A local radio personality was part of photo spread for some men's magazine, She said they literally took 100s of pics of her to get the one or two they used. The centerfold, they may take 10,000 pics to get, what? 10? for publication. And that's with all the photoshop stuff they can do.

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                  • MrPleazr
                    Member
                    • Jun 2009
                    • 46

                    Gotta love digital photography...

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