[WildChild]

Well Alice I'll bet a lot of men are sick of women who are so insecure about their boobs, stretch marks, or whatever. When we are attracted to someone, it is about so much more than one body part. The man in my life is losing his hair, it bothers him sometimes, I really don't care. I love him, his hair is so far down the list that is hardly makes it. It's hard when we care for someone to have them putting themselves down. When you think about it, it's a put down for their judgement too. The how could you not be bothered by this, kind if thing?

Advertisers are very good at feeding our insecurities and our vanity. I hear ads all the time on the radio for male enhancement. They are trying to make men as insecure about their penis size as women are about breast size. It's sad and stupid. The best thing we can all do is refuse to fall for it!

[rcoreyus]

But without that insecurity, think what would happen to pickup truck sales in urban markets

Penis size is like breast size: it matters to some people not to others.

[Hopeless Dork]

But without that insecurity, think what would happen to pickup truck sales in urban markets

Penis size is like breast size: it matters to some people not to others.

lol Rcoreyus. Just the other day I pulled up next to this mammoth pick-up, huge for no reason at all, the guy came out and hopped in it and all I could think was he was probably overcompensating :P

[Joy]

size doens't matter its your interest in your partner that matters. Its connecting that will rock her world and being in tune with her. I've had guys with larger then large penis's and they thought that's all they had to bring to the sheets. haha whatever.

really it starts with communication the men and women who can talk about anything really have the best mind blowing sex.... nothing is off limits. If you are in a relaitonship where the communication is strained and your man/woman gets jealous over everything sex is pretty restrained and uptight.

Wildchild is correct don't fall for the dumb marketing that plays on fears, insecurities and instant gratification.

[abby_616]

the way i see it, women scrutinize male's genitalia in the same way males do over breast size. its a retaliation.

im quite tiny myself so i prefer smaller guys that know what theyre doing. seriously, there no use having a giant schlong if all you can do is wave it around and thrust in and out like a retarded badger!

[sextherapist]

Size doesn't matter - it's the personality, charm, and just plain enjoyment when you're around each other that women really care about!

[Guest]

I dunno - I always thought size did matter. My group of girlfriends in college made that painfully obvious.

In fact, my fiance broke up with her last boyfriend shortly after they had sex the first time because she was disappointed at the size of his penis. She said it didn't do anything for her visually/physically. She felt bad, but who can blame her for looking out for #1? Sex is a very important part of a relationship.

When I fantasize, I don't fantasize about big vaginas, I like to think about smaller tight ones....as is the case with most guys.

In turn, I'd imagine that the look and feel of a larger penis is probably a turn on to some degree for a woman as well.

[WildChild]

But without that insecurity, think what would happen to pickup truck sales in urban markets

Penis size is like breast size: it matters to some people not to others.

LOL, saw a Hummer the other day that had been "raised". It probably took a pull down ladder to get in and out of the thing. I about split a gut laughing, thinking about overcompensating! I've owned many pickups-they were work horses, I just don't get business of the office worker, living in apartment owning a one ton. Had a thought the other day seeing some beefed up truck...get a bunch of those extenz or someother similar products flyers and start putting them on their windsheilds LOL.

[OGFL]

LOL

i think it depends on the size of the girl. A lot woman dont seem to know that they come in different sizes like men do and usually go with the bigger is better mentality till they meet someone who sizes causes too much pain or meet a lover who size isnt what they expected but was wowed in bed my the man carrying it that they stop caring about it.

then again there are woman who bigger vaginas who want bigger dicks to match them ( cant blame them for that) but alot who seem scream about size also claim to have the tightest vagina ever which makes me wonder if they are just really into pain or so they can brag to friends about how big the guy is they are screwing( or maybe they are lying about the tight VAGINA :d)

from personal experience the one girl i slept with who didnt think i was big enough to satisfy her was also the only girl i considered faking my orgasm ( she viewed sex completely like what they do in porn, just a 15- 30 min session of me jackhammering it in there and if I tried anything else she complained about it and /or she tell me to get off of her and we stop having sex)

now im not saying all girls who care about size are like the woman i dated but im willing to bet a lot of them are.

[Hopeless Dork]

Some people are just jerks, and they come in both male and female form. We are all attracted to what we are attracted to and different aspects of our partners turn us on. My boyfriend just so happens to have a good sized penis, a great sized , fantastic sized penis actually...lol, and that turns me on. It wouldnt take his whole penis to satisfy me - he does so just fine with one finger a lot of times, and in certain positions his size is almost painful but the pleasure way nullifies any discomfort at the same time.

But I love him, and I love his penis and I think if he had something smaller than he does I would feel the exact same way. I have no idea how many inches he is, don't care, I like the way it looks and feels to ME and in my eyes its a monster, a sexy monster