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    Originally posted by Hopeless Dork
    I am completely honest in the fact that an above average sized penis is visually stimulating to me.
    You left out something. In post #5 in this thread you also gave indication that you also prefer the feel of bigger than average size penis. I'm concluding size matters modererately to you.

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    • Guest

      My typing is bad today. Sorry.

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      • WildChild
        Banned
        • Sep 2008
        • 14142

        It's all in your head. OR maybe his head.... But how you feel about someone, how connected you are and how compatible is what really counts.

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        • Hopeless Dork
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          • Dec 2008
          • 4255

          Originally posted by Hopeless Dork
          Penis size isn't important for my personal sexual pleasure. My gspot is about 3 inches in and I am sure a small penis would satisfy me just fine. I do however like the look and feel of one that is a little bigger than average. Its just a visual/tactile stimulant to me.. in the way large breasts or a big butt might be for some guys.
          If thats the quote from post 5 you mean... I do not mean the FEEL of it in my vagina, I meant the feel of it in my hands, touching something that is that visually ... uh exciting.. is a turn on yes. Is it necessary to gratify my sexual needs that are in my vagina for me to orgasm.. not in the least bit.
          Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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          • Guest

            Originally posted by WildChild
            It's all in your head. OR maybe his head.... But how you feel about someone, how connected you are and how compatible is what really counts.
            True to an extent. When it works that is. On down the line if he goes to letting her down in their relationship then she starts desiring for some guy to put it on her like she hasn't been getting, sizewise that is.

            In this world we live in nice guys are naturally looked upon by women as good friendship materal and eventually even as good husband and father material for her kids. Not so much as lover material though. Women are more drawn to bad guys and to players, and even when women 'outgrow' their attraction to bad boys they are merely overwriting their dna instincts, not deleting them, as dna can't deleted. When women become older they begin to focus more on survival of the species programming. I don't really want to get into why women are naturally sexually more drawn to bad boys and not as much to nice guys, but two studies back up what I'm saying.

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            • Guest

              Originally posted by Hopeless Dork
              If thats the quote from post 5 you mean... I do not mean the FEEL of it in my vagina, I meant the feel of it in my hands, touching something that is that visually ... uh exciting.. is a turn on yes. Is it necessary to gratify my sexual needs that are in my vagina for me to orgasm.. not in the least bit.
              Doesn't that seem at all like a contradiction to you? You are saying that just because you prefer the look and feel of a bigger penis that plays no role towards your stimulus and how turned on you are during intercourse itself.

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              • Hopeless Dork
                Veteran Member
                • Dec 2008
                • 4255

                Its no more contradictery (sp) than loving husbands and boyfriends who still like to see strangers naked on the internet and in magazines. Or a man that has felt large breasts and considered them to be a turn on to look at and feel but can orgasm just fine with his current partner that does not have thos attributes.
                Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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                • Guest

                  Originally posted by WildChild
                  LOL, saw a Hummer the other day that had been "raised". It probably took a pull down ladder to get in and out of the thing. I about split a gut laughing, thinking about overcompensating! I've owned many pickups-they were work horses, I just don't get business of the office worker, living in apartment owning a one ton. Had a thought the other day seeing some beefed up truck...get a bunch of those extenz or someother similar products flyers and start putting them on their windsheilds LOL.
                  I have wondered if there is some correlation between penis size and the big jacked up trucks some guys drive. And often times the truck is loud, the guys are driving very aggressively. So it does make one wonder. I also notice though that many women who size makes no difference will turn around and contradict themselves in many ways. Your wanting to clown on those guys penises by puttinmg flyers on their trucks is just one such example. I'm a firm believer that many women are in denial about their caring about penis size. Not that it's important to those women, just that they do care somewhat more than they will admit to others or even to their own self.

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                  • Guest

                    Originally posted by Hopeless Dork
                    If thats the quote from post 5 you mean... I do not mean the FEEL of it in my vagina, I meant the feel of it in my hands, touching something that is that visually ... uh exciting.. is a turn on yes. Is it necessary to gratify my sexual needs that are in my vagina for me to orgasm.. not in the least bit.
                    Not in the least bit? After reading your posts that's like saying 1 = 1 = 3. It doesn't add up. If a big penis is powerful eye candy to your eyes then it counts towards foreplay at the very least. And why do you think it's an extra visual turn on? For no reason at all? There's a reason for everything. Your instincts qualify it as such.

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                    • SinisterUrge
                      Veteran Member
                      • Feb 2008
                      • 370

                      Obsession with penis size.....

                      1. People like sex (naturally)
                      2. There is no codeified system for how good sex actually is. So people took a shortcut and assumed bigger is better.
                      3. This flies in the face of reality, in which skill and technique tend to have larger effect on the enjoyability of sex.
                      4. Good luck trying to change the world's opinion. As a group people still have the idiotic assumption that a heterosexual male will instantly be turned homosexual if anything ever goes into his butt. (Likewise with heterosexual women and cunnilingus).

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