[Theresa]

I wish you the best of luck with that Theresa. It is not always easy to give and not to receive. Beleive me I know. But you have the oppurtunity to change it. Only you! Good luck!

Thanks - But have had not much luck so far. I guess it takes time. He is not an easy student. (haha) He is not getting into me yet, that is why I am trying everything I can to him but he has not been open to alot. (ugh)

[miss.sin.t.uh]

i thought i was bi curious, because i knew i always wanted to try it with a girl, however i been so attracted to man, i knew there was no way i could ever stay away from males. But i knew i had thoughts about girls too. I tried to figure myself out, and not be ashamed, so i admitted to my boyfriend i was bi-curious. Well after my 3 year relationship was over, i found that everything i want in a man, is mostly what girls offer. So now, i am trying to see girls only. I know im not lesbian, but im 100% sure im bi. Theres nothing wrong with that.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I wonder if it is because girls know what they want and can't be totally fulfilled by choice of wrong partners perhaps?

Or, that they give up on men.... and try alternative..

This being said, this only in the case of being bi-curious but never trying it...

We aren't talking about being bi full stop and acknowledging that side of us, rather bi-curious and never tried.

Probably not, but probably a small factor why some ladies who always and only dated men most of their life decide to give a female a go instead.

Just a thought.

CW

[Guest]

He would have a heart attack if I suggested that. (haha) Also the place where we live is not the best for seeking out a person to help me out with that.

We have been married for 19 years and I have never asked him to take care of my needs so he has never done it. I take care of him in any way he wants but is he is old school if I may say

Have you ever spoken to your husband regarding your sex life or lack of it should i say?? when you say you have never asked him to take care of your needs, dont tell me he is like a roll on roll off ferry?

When i met my husband we talk in depth about what we liked in bed and what we didnt like and it has worked out well but you need to talk to him.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Have you ever spoken to your husband regarding your sex life or lack of it should i say?? when you say you have never asked him to take care of your needs, dont tell me he is like a roll on roll off ferry?

When i met my husband we talk in depth about what we liked in bed and what we didnt like and it has worked out well but you need to talk to him.

19 years and you give all and he gives nothing?

I am so sorry for you....

I know you say haha but I think you mean ahhh....

It's never too late to say excuse me, i give and you?

CW

[Theresa]

Have you ever spoken to your husband regarding your sex life or lack of it should i say?? when you say you have never asked him to take care of your needs, dont tell me he is like a roll on roll off ferry?

When i met my husband we talk in depth about what we liked in bed and what we didnt like and it has worked out well but you need to talk to him.

Talked until I am blue in the face. Yep the man I love is a roll on roll off ferry! Until recently I accepted the fact that this is the way it should be but something has changed for me and I want and need more. The lack of sexual intimacy is taking its toll on me and I am getting frustrated. Isn't a marriage supposed to be a team effort????

[Theresa]

19 years and you give all and he gives nothing?

I am so sorry for you....

I know you say haha but I think you mean ahhh....

It's never too late to say excuse me, i give and you?

CW

I have tried porn. I have tried books. I have tried hands on training.
I have tried sexy lingerie, toys, doing anything he wants me to do to him (which is nothing more than a BJ) and talking to him. Still nothing works.

Is it to much to ask if I want oral or fingering? I have started giving him BJ's and then riding him because I can orgasm like that but the minute that is over he climbs on top of me, cums, rolls off and goes to sleep. I am thinking that there is something wrong with this picture.

[Chantalemma]

There is defenetly somehtign wrong with this picture.!

[Theresa]

There is defenetly somehtign wrong with this picture.!

Thanks - I am not going crazy then!!!

[Chantalemma]

Oh no you are not going crazy! I know I had the same problem! Not 19 years or anything , but we talked and now it has gotten better now. Not 100% or anything but something i can bare with.