[kira]

I think you should break this down into steps and find exactly what point you reach that you dislike something too much to do it. Start out just licking for a short awhile as foreplay and then move on to sex. Get used to the idea. It does help if the guy has taken a shower recently or they can taste rather salty from sweat. There's also no rule against putting anything tasty down there to lick off. If you have no problem with this then try bringing him to orgasm. You could try using a flavored condom (not a regular one those taste really nasty) so he does ejaculate while in your mouth but you won't have to taste anything. That does cut down on both the physical and mental aspect a little though. Depending how he sees it though it could be a good compromise. If you find that isn't so bad then I would suggest trying it once all the way to finish with no barrier and see if the taste is tolerable.

You may find you draw the line somewhere in there and it's just not something you are willing to do. You don't have to do anything you don't want to and if he would leave you over not performing a sexual act then this relationship is doomed to fail anyway. You may find instead though that there is some part of it you enjoy doing and that is at least a satisfactory compromise for him or you may even find after you get used to it that having him finish in your mouth isn't that bad.

He keeps saying that he does that for me most of the time even though he doesn't want me to get pregnant(me neither) and finds it risky and he would be so happy if I'd do what he wants too.

Why is it so risky? Are you not on birth control or not using condoms? It shouldn't be risky. It's best not to have as risk free sex as possible and it's quite easy to eliminate the risk of pregnancy up to the 99th percentile.

[teedee]

I think you should break this down into steps and find exactly what point you reach that you dislike something too much to do it. Start out just licking for a short awhile as foreplay and then move on to sex. Get used to the idea. It does help if the guy has taken a shower recently or they can taste rather salty from sweat. There's also no rule against putting anything tasty down there to lick off. If you have no problem with this then try bringing him to orgasm. You could try using a flavored condom (not a regular one those taste really nasty) so he does ejaculate while in your mouth but you won't have to taste anything. That does cut down on both the physical and mental aspect a little though. Depending how he sees it though it could be a good compromise. If you find that isn't so bad then I would suggest trying it once all the way to finish with no barrier and see if the taste is tolerable.

You may find you draw the line somewhere in there and it's just not something you are willing to do. You don't have to do anything you don't want to and if he would leave you over not performing a sexual act then this relationship is doomed to fail anyway. You may find instead though that there is some part of it you enjoy doing and that is at least a satisfactory compromise for him or you may even find after you get used to it that having him finish in your mouth isn't that bad.



Why is it so risky? Are you not on birth control or not using condoms? It shouldn't be risky. It's best not to have as risk free sex as possible and it's quite easy to eliminate the risk of pregnancy up to the 99th percentile.

No.I'm not on BC pills and not using condoms. That's why its risky. Even though I love him, I don't want to change my hormone schedule for a guy. I'd rather him using condoms but he doesn't like to use it.

The problem is he wants me to swallow them and finds it too sexy so I can't use condoms while doing it. He's ejaculated on my face once and wanted me taste too so I've tasted it but didn't like it. It tastes too salty and warm. As someone said here before, I felt like I swallowed warm glue which was bad

[WildChild]

Part of this is your mind set. Warm is a temp not a taste. Like glue, was someone's comment and you've added that to your vocab. Granted this is an acquired taste I suppose, but changing your descriptive words will help your mind set. HE also needs to make some changes, drinking more clear fluids, a diet change (do a search for semen taste- you'll find a bunch of info) and regular ejaculation will alter the consistancy, taste and volume.

If this is something you want to learn, then work into it slowly.

[lisab73]

as far as taste ...

try using a sugar free mint like a breathsaver in your mouth

[Hopeless Dork]

I don't know, to each their own on this one obviously. But I do think too many women have this pre-conceived notion of sperm being degrading if planted anywhere but in their vagina.

Orgasm is one of, if not the best pleasure sensation our body has. Loving your signficant other, is to love all of them. That crooked tooth, that one little hair growing out of the ear, that cellulite on the back of her right thigh, etc etc... its loving every little thing about them. No, semen does not taste like diet cherry vanilla dr. pepper (oh I wish it did!) it does not.

While our vaginal fluids are no where near as strong or salty as semen, most , at least in my case are gentle and pretty bland, mildly sweet even... but no...ladies we do NOT taste like a peach and cream pie down there either.

Passion and pleasing is not a taste test, not in my opinion, its raw, its dirty, its animalistic and... its beautiful. Try to think about the other senses , the way his face looks as you are giving him the most intense sensation he can feel, the sounds he makes, the way his body twitches.

Think of those things as you let him, let go into your mouth.. swallow quickly as it comes... the quicker you swallow the less it lingers in your mouth, the further back on your tongue you take, the less of it you taste as most of our taste buds are in the front.

Don't think about the texture, the scent or the flavor (unless you are like me and enjoy all those things about your lovers release fluids) think about the pleasure you are giving. Its about 5 seconds of "warm glue" to give the person you love something so special.

I know for those of you that think its a terrible thing to do ... that advice is not for you. For those that want to do it but can't get past the ick factor .. hope any of that helps.

[teedee]

hello everyone,

thanks for your supportive emails and advice. I talked to my BF yesterday. I really want to make him happy so we decided to go slowly. I'll let him cum to my face while we're in the shower then will taste it again and after that i'll let him cum into my mouth.

xoxo

[Isabellacat]

I've accidently swallowed it a few times..... I did'nt like the taste and it felt weird going down my throat.So I'd have to say I'm not a big fan of having cum in my mouth,I usually spit it out. I like it when a guy cums on my face tho, that's pleasurable.

My worst experience tho is when I had an ex bf accidently cum into my eye. That stuff in the eye hella hurts...felt like someone threw salt in my eye or something.

[alicat]

salty? drink more water! Seriously!!!

a little trick I used when I a beginner (yes, hubby is the only recipient of my bj expertise lol) was to bring a hot cup of tea into the bedroom. Peppermint, or apple/cinnamon, just some sort of flavored herbal tea that you like. Take a swallow of the tea right as you are getting started and then take a sip every so often (tease him a little bit, making him wait for a release isn't going to hurt him a bit). The tea will lessen his taste when he does cum. A side benefit is that hubby claims the first few seconds of a bj right after a swallow of peppermint tea is light a pleasurable bolt of lightening (his words lol)

[maggie0285]

You tell him no! Why do guys think women enjoy semen coming out of a penis into their mouth? I have wondered what it would be like if we could stick our vaginas in their face and have something squirt on them and we could say it turns us on. And also guys dont go down on us hardly ever! And if they do its for maybe 30 seconds. And they dont have to worry about anything squirting on them!

[Toby.W]

U don't wanna hurt him right?He has had a wife you said and she diden't want it in her mouth .Well,think you'll be the one with t in your mouth and/or face so you decde.But you don't wanna hurt him.Why not talk say your reasons why you don't want it and ask him what he wants.

Go ahead try it.