[Texinator]

Probably because it feels good to them, but they aren't being very considerate of your feelings.

[MrPleazr]

I love bringing toys into it... I actually enjoy using them on her as does she. She's pretty shy and won't use them by herself usually, outside of her favorite bullet vibe. She's gradually getting more into it and is now wanting to try some sensory deprivation and light bondage.... I'm a freak I guess, but I'm jumping at the chance. I'm not jealous of a dildo, whether it's bigger than me or not... She obviously comes harder for me than any toy, I just like the variety and it gives me time to recover...

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Guys, just like girls, loose interest after awhile. Not all guys are that way, but sometimes after a few months you just know this person isn't the one I wanna be with forever... "lets just be friends"

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Guys make a big deal about the size of their junk for the same reasons women make an issue out of the size of their boobs.... If penis implants worked as well as breast implants did, most men would have 9" penis'... Men need a 9" penis about as much as a woman needs D cup breasts...They don't function any better, but they sure look better that way...

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Men, or boys, who whistle and carry on are usually just a bunch of ego maniacs...99% of men wouldn't dare act that way...

[Guest]

Why do men like to yell across the street,whistle and honk their car horns?? Do they actualy think that's attractive???Cos it is not. When a guy whistles or honks their car horn at me I usually ignore him.

Because some women respond to that!

[Guest]

LOL!! i would probably be thrilled if it meant i could sleep in more!!! he is a ahem early riser and i am a night owl, can be tiring for both of us!!!

If you'd rather your man masturbate than have sex with you I guess you guys have some things to work on.

[caterpillar79]

OK, here's ASK OTYA! (OG...where are you?)

What do you guys have in mind or think about when you are making love with your SO? Do you have a "picture" in mind? What happens in that brain?

[MrPleazr]

OK, here's ASK OTYA! (OG...where are you?)

What do you guys have in mind or think about when you are making love with your SO? Do you have a "picture" in mind? What happens in that brain?

Usually... "OMG this feels so good....play with my balls, play with my balls...OOOOMG.....get a towel'

LOL, something like that.... No picture in mind, I just have to open my eyes, no other motivation needed....

[Texasred]

OK, here's ASK OTYA! (OG...where are you?)

What do you guys have in mind or think about when you are making love with your SO? Do you have a "picture" in mind? What happens in that brain?

I just picture her - she's beautiful! - and I picture us joined together. I much much prefer making love with at least one light on, so I can see her.

Just seeing her naked is all it takes to take my mind off of whatever else I may have been doing, or thinking, and she knows it, so when she's in the mood all she does is pull her shirt open, flash her breasts at me, and that's it - I have a new plan, Sam!

[LanaBear]

Usually... "OMG this feels so good....play with my balls, play with my balls...OOOOMG.....get a towel'

lol - that cracked me up.

[renee69]

ACTUALLY I DIDNT GIVE HIM ANY UNTIL 3 MONTHS DOWN THE LINE....HE ALL OF A SUDDEN WANTED TO BE FRIENDS 4 MONTHS AFTER THAT.....A YEAR AND A HALF LATER HE STILL HOUNDING ME LIKE HE WANT ME.......BUT IS STILL AN (edit)

[Guest]

OK, here's ASK OTYA! (OG...where are you?)

What do you guys have in mind or think about when you are making love with your SO? Do you have a "picture" in mind? What happens in that brain?

It's a mix of things. Most times, it's all about the woman i'm with. Sometimes, gotta let the mind wander. Really, anything sexy that does it for me. Typically the same things I'd think about if I was masturbating alone.

These days i'm thinking about her and her sexy body and how good it feels. I feel guilty bringing other people/situations into my head when I'm with her, even if they are only in my head.