This topic is closed.
X
X
Collapse
  • Filter
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts
  • Haven
    Member
    • May 2009
    • 74

    Originally posted by hello_pitty
    I have a question too!

    Does it really start to get uncomfortable for men if they haven't cum in a few days or even a week? Like do their testes get "full" and uncomfortable?
    Yes. OYTA explained the sensation perfectly.

    My experience has been that I have the the full, uncomfortable feeling at first. There isn't any pain until I've been turned on for a while. After that, though, my balls will swell up and turn bright red and start hurting.

    I wouldn't call the pain excruciating, but it's definitely enough to make a guy want to do something about it. It takes a while to go away, too.

    Comment

    • GlitterAndStuds
      Veteran Member
      • Jul 2009
      • 1182

      Originally posted by OhThereYouAre
      Haha - and you thought girls were the only ones to lie there and wonder when it's going to be over.
      Seriously. There's nothing worse than pushing on the bladder

      Thankfully I've never had that problem. But thanks to your tidbit, I'll be keeping it mind for his sake, haha.

      Comment

      • alterview
        Member
        • Oct 2009
        • 47

        my friends story

        Originally posted by hello_pitty
        I have a question too!

        Does it really start to get uncomfortable for men if they haven't cum in a few days or even a week? Like do their testes get "full" and uncomfortable?
        reminds me of a funny story one of my male friends told me after he broke up with his boyfriend. they were very sexually active and the first week after the break up he was in pain, so much so that he went to the dr to figure out what was wrong. after a few questions from the dr, the dr told him that he had a back up of semen and he was sure he (my friend) knew how to alleviate the pressure.

        also, given a little time, a mans body will absorb the build up. our bodies get use to certain production levels. it just takes time to readjust.

        cheers!

        Comment

        • rachel801
          Member
          • Oct 2009
          • 22

          Originally posted by OhThereYouAre
          In my experience, yes. Not necessarily a variety of women, but variety in general.
          I think I need to swap brains with a man. Why? Does that mean men will always think of sleeping with other women? It's scary, because many men can't refuse sex when it's offered or when they're seduced. I have a high sex drive and I'm really generous and experimental in bed. But if the variety thing holds true, what can you do to keep them faithful?

          Comment

          • OG612
            Veteran Member
            • Aug 2008
            • 261

            Originally posted by hello_pitty
            Does it really start to get uncomfortable for men if they haven't cum in a few days or even a week? Like do their testes get "full" and uncomfortable?
            After a few days the urge to have sex, or to at least masturbate, becomes strong. But I don't get any feelings of discomfort down there if I don't ejaculate after a few days.

            For most men, they'd need to go an extended period of time without ejaculating. Like weeks or months. The seed was meant to be spilled. If it's not, then it can cause complications; just not after a couple of days.

            OG
            Through hypnosis, I create confident men and women to succeed in all facets of their lives. This place will soon get very interesting!

            Comment

            • caterpillar79
              Veteran Member
              • Mar 2009
              • 3895

              OG, what complications would these be?

              Comment

              • happy ending
                Veteran Member
                • Oct 2008
                • 869

                Originally posted by caterpillar79
                OG, what complications would these be?
                balls the size of basketballs LOL!! no not really, i'd like to know too though.

                Comment

                • Texinator
                  Veteran Member
                  • Sep 2009
                  • 5556

                  Originally posted by rachel801
                  Does that mean men will always think of sleeping with other women? It's scary, because many men can't refuse sex when it's offered or when they're seduced. I have a high sex drive and I'm really generous and experimental in bed. But if the variety thing holds true, what can you do to keep them faithful?
                  Some men might ponder what it'd be like to be/sleep with some of the other woman they encounter. But it's usually nothing more than a very brief fantasy.

                  A man being unfaithful to his girlfriend or wife is indicative of a character flaw or of a flaw within the relationship.

                  Comment

                  • Goodgirl93
                    Veteran Member
                    • Sep 2009
                    • 2634

                    It seems to me like men know more about how a woman masturbates then a woman does herself. Why is that?

                    Comment

                    • Texinator
                      Veteran Member
                      • Sep 2009
                      • 5556

                      Originally posted by Goodgirl93
                      then a woman does herself. Why is that?
                      'than many women do themselves' is probably more accurate.

                      I wonder if it is because many women are still being taught that good girls don't touch themselves and so they don't really experiment and find out what feels good. Men on the other hand typically are less inhibited when it comes to the subject and so they also pick up on female masturbation techniques.

                      Comment

                      or

                      Womens Health orange logoGet The Newsletter

                      Join our weekly newsletter and get the latest thought-provoking bold research and fearless conversations about sex - plus exclusive product giveaways - delivered to your inbox.

                      Latest Activity

                      Collapse

                      Latest Topics

                      Collapse

                      • PCOS and unwanted hair growth

                        Does anyone have any experience with PCOS and getting rid of unwanted facial hair? What started as one singular strand on my chin in my 20s has turned...

                        07-27-2026, 07:25 AM By Birdie_567
                      Working...