[happy ending]

last night - i had an aha moment, when i realised why we argue when my sweetie is away at work, when we hardly ever argue when we are together, doh it might have something to do with missing each other and the stress of being apart, he is still trying to be part of my life by showing what he thinks is an interest and i read as nagging, i was telling him off last night for something he said, then burst into tears, but when i apologised, he said "dont i always love to hear your voice, anytime" well thank you everyone for your advice but i think i've actually got it.

[Texinator]

That's why I was wondering if he might be unhappy with his work. But your explanation makes more sense. I'm happy you figured it out.

[happy ending]

the fly in, fly out mining industry is difficult to deal with, but where else can a truck driver make $100,000 a year. i am just embarassed i didnt work it out sooner. thank you for your patience.

[Texinator]

How are things with him these days, happy?

[rachel801]

I like having sex more than my boyfriend does. We live together, but I always feel like he doesn't want to have sex when I do. It's really frustrating...aren't men supposed to want it all the time? He says my sex drive worries him.

[mr.mansview]

I like having sex more than my boyfriend does. We live together, but I always feel like he doesn't want to have sex when I do. It's really frustrating...aren't men supposed to want it all the time? He says my sex drive worries him.

apparently the "men always want it" is in fact a myth as i have found out from 2 years on this site..your sex drive is prolly normal, his maybe below normal..if he is worried u may go elsewhere for satisfaction then he better get busy with you

[SFDad]

From my perspective, the only times I have not wanted sex when my wife wanted it was because I was either too tired(different working hours, stress) or because I was upset about something else(worried about our daughter, mad about something).

Guys are not always very good about explaining why they aren't raring to go. See if you can get to the bottom of it. But also take a look at how you would feel if it was reversed- would you feel presurred if he wanted it when you didn't?

[happy ending]

things are good tex, we have something very special, but with my abdonement issues and his commitment issues. it never gets boring - that for sure!!! we are learning to talk things through, and not use our (non existant) pcychic powers!! LOL!

[Texinator]

Good to hear. As long as you talk about it and try to help each other understand then you should be fine.

[Ahryin]

I have a question for the men....when a guy comes out of the blue (one whom you normally talk to everyday at least 4 to 5 times a day) and says he does not owe you anything and you do not owe him anything and he is not obilgated to speak with you everyday even though he has chose to in the past and he just doesn't feel like hearing voices....what does that really mean?