[Guest]

Apart from your lovely doodles, or bottoms - lets get that out the way, women have "spots" that turn her on, apart from the obvious, do guys? And, where?

I like when she sucks on my fingers simulating a BJ. Most guys do.

The bottom side of the penis under the head. Swirl your tongue there during oral every once in a while.

If they are in the mood...pressing (not penetrating) on the the backdoor is very pleasant toward the end of intercourse.

Breathing/licking, lightly grazing neck/ears is awesome foreplay.

Don't touch our nipples.

[Guest]

Ahryin is on a roll, LOL!
> Why do you hold onto the remote like its the last piece of gold on the earth

I got this... Ok this one should be obvious... here it goes... Since we were like 3yrs old guys are expected to have the answers, be tough, handle adversity with even stronger resolve, provide the shoulder to cry on and otherwise be the rock in a sea of chaos.

The reality is, we don't have the answers, we worry about facing a situation that will expose our true vulnerabilities and potentially sink us, we are at the mercy of the successes/failures in our career and certainly have no friggin idea what is running through our woman's mind let alone have a clue as to what she'll do next... so, we ultimately control jack and squat.

Then, after thousands of years, we finally figured out we could invent something that we can control, 24/7, 365 days a year including those annoying leap-days. And so we are drawn like moths to a flame, immersing ourselves in the satisfying bliss of the delicious cause & effect of every remote control button press.

On... ESPN... SPIKE TV... Comedy Central... Pause... FF...
"Uh huh dear", [what did she say? oh wait, this episode of Family Guy is hilarious!]
Record... click click click...

Meh - ladies, I don't agree with this.

Good men look at challenges with anticipation. Most guys I know do.

Good men feel in control of their lives and have a handle on reality....they know what they can and can't do. (think serenity prayer)

A good partner will be in tune with their S/O. A lot of the times, I know what my partner is thinking.

Good men aren't control freaks. And I don't feel man's shortcomings throughout evolution have caused us to want to press buttons because we know the expected outcome.

[Ahryin]

$200 for a hair cut! You GOTZ to be playin! I would flip!!! I make good money but as I have stated before I also raise two girls on my own so if I was single I would be a baller...but after daycare, afterschool payments, tuition (because public schools around me suck) I have an apt and a house on top of everything else...he brings home freely more than I do.
I can't stand to pay over 50 for my hair and thats including waxing my eyebrows! I go str8 to the dominicans for a wash, blow dry, style!
Still he always tells me I shop to much etc..blah blah blah
But I shop for deals and plan ahead for instance i'm shopping now for next summer because everything is on sale for the kids...jean shorts and capri's are ALWAYS needed so I buy them 2 or 3 sizes to big, I know they are going to need swimsuits so I get those as well and anything else i can get my hands on so next year they are set!

By the way it does bother him that I make more money than he does...apparently I make a lot more money than he does and he says he works harder than I do. He is older than I am and does physical labor...but like I told him he has set hours...I work until my project is done. I'm corporate and anyone who has experienced corporate knows the rules. Which leads me to my next question....Will a man REALLY resent you for the hours you have to put in and your position. I am hoping he gets over this but he is really upset.

[Ahryin]

The more I think about it, thats why I don't talk money with men!

[Steph33]

Guess I'll step in then.



It's "gay" and you can use it against us if the relationship turns sour.



I've read the "porn is destroying our relationship" threads and I honestly believe the women's overreaction to discovering that their guy looks at porn is what's causing the rift in those relationships.

To a guy, looking at porn isn't a big deal. We've been doing it since we figured out how, way back before we met you, and we kind of assumed you knew about it. There's no emotional or physical infidelity involved. If we're not doing it in front of you, and we still have the energy to keep you sexually satisfied, it's difficult for many of us to understand why you'd have a problem with it.

So all those in a relationship where the guy masturbates daily to porn instead of having sex with his partner are "overreaction", he's just being normal and it isn't a big deal. And since there is no emotion connected, it's ok and not cheating in any way, mentally or otherwise.

A conversation I hope everyone has and hears before they emotionally attach to any guy, has a kid with him, or is dumb enough to marry him.

[nightqueen]

I like when she sucks on my fingers simulating a BJ. Most guys do.

The bottom side of the penis under the head. Swirl your tongue there during oral every once in a while.

If they are in the mood...pressing (not penetrating) on the the backdoor is very pleasant toward the end of intercourse.

Breathing/licking, lightly grazing neck/ears is awesome foreplay.

Don't touch our nipples.

That's funny. DH doesn't like his nipples touched either. lol

[Steph33]

Most men think a big butt is a turn off.

Do men think that popular beer gut look makes them look hot as they get older or are secure in a marriage, while wanting a 40 year old with kids to look like a porn star ? I say porn star after the reply porn is fine and problems related to porn and relationships are the female's fault (?? WTF). Devil's advocate.

[Guest]

Most men think a big butt is a turn off.

Do men think that popular beer gut look makes them look hot as they get older or are secure in a marriage, while wanting a 40 year old with kids to look like a porn star ? I say porn star after the reply porn is fine and problems related to porn and relationships are the female's fault (?? WTF). Devil's advocate.

So....when did you find your guy's porn stash?

How did you feel?

Do you masturbate? What do you use and what do you fantasize about?

[Guest]

$200 for a hair cut! You GOTZ to be playin! I would flip!!! I make good money but as I have stated before I also raise two girls on my own so if I was single I would be a baller...but after daycare, afterschool payments, tuition (because public schools around me suck) I have an apt and a house on top of everything else...he brings home freely more than I do.
I can't stand to pay over 50 for my hair and thats including waxing my eyebrows! I go str8 to the dominicans for a wash, blow dry, style!
Still he always tells me I shop to much etc..blah blah blah
But I shop for deals and plan ahead for instance i'm shopping now for next summer because everything is on sale for the kids...jean shorts and capri's are ALWAYS needed so I buy them 2 or 3 sizes to big, I know they are going to need swimsuits so I get those as well and anything else i can get my hands on so next year they are set!

By the way it does bother him that I make more money than he does...apparently I make a lot more money than he does and he says he works harder than I do. He is older than I am and does physical labor...but like I told him he has set hours...I work until my project is done. I'm corporate and anyone who has experienced corporate knows the rules. Which leads me to my next question....Will a man REALLY resent you for the hours you have to put in and your position. I am hoping he gets over this but he is really upset.

I know - $200....it's tough to swallow...but you know what...what's $200 for her piece of mind? She isn't a diva...in fact the exact opposite...she's a dime and doesn't know it....she does it cause she likes looking good for me. Can I fault her?

Physical labor is a pain. I wouldn't do it. Throwing weights around is as dirty as I get. Bless his heart.

You sound like an awesome mother. I bet your kids love the h*ll outta you.

I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T, do ya know what that means?

[Ahryin]

Man...I almost forgot what I was about to ask...a co-worker of mine was reading a magazine one of those girly ones. It states that if a man text, or calls you before 5pm that you are important to him...I scrunched my face up...but is that true?

My SO hardly text messages me but for the most part its because he works..the magazine states that if he really cared about me he would be thinking about me to at least call me once through the day...maybe i'm just in confused mode today but is that true?