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I've only recently discovered that 'edging' technique. I use to think the objective was to get him to orgasm as quick as possible... but when you get him almost there and stop... and then build him up again... and stop... it extends their pleasure so much and also leads to a more powerful O.Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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I totally agree. I have just started this technique on him too. He loves it.I've only recently discovered that 'edging' technique. I use to think the objective was to get him to orgasm as quick as possible... but when you get him almost there and stop... and then build him up again... and stop... it extends their pleasure so much and also leads to a more powerful O.
I have to say this. There is one time that he was cuming in my mouth and for soem reason I choked at the same time and I swallowed too. It was the weirdest thing ever and then all of a sudden I felt it in my nose. I was like no way is that possible. I have my bf cum coming out my nose. We laughed so hard I was crying. We still joke about that day.Comment
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OK, teach an old lady a new trick!
exactly, how do you go about prolonging this experience for him? and if that sounds like a silly question I guess that's ok--but if I'm right at the edge of climax and he stops then it takes me ALOT longer to reach that point again and I don't necessarily feel that I reach a stronger climax. So is it safe to assume that this is not the norm?
So share some secrets here because I would love for my hubby to be a quivering mass of flesh when I get through with himComment
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You perform all your normal tricks for him... then when you know hes just a few seconds away from the big finale you stop your physical stimulation, but keep up with the mental. If hes in your mouth and hand just ease up, barely touching (sometimes if they've gone too far, its out of your hands and they will shoot anyway lol) but if you time it right... you'll stop him, keep stimulating him, but just in a teasing way - not in a way to make him come.
You can put on a show for him, tease him with your body, maybe lick and stroke his thighs but not for long... keep the stopping points 30 seconds to a minute or less then go back into action - sometimes you get them right back there -- sometimes if you dilly dally too long its like starting all over lol... but either way you are building him up.
I like to talk and tease on a stopping point while just flicking my tongue on it and rubbing his thighs, its kind of like frustrating them on purpose, you can do this over and over until he is either begging you to let him come or your legs are falling asleep-- either way -- lol -
When he starts getting close (and you know you are going to let him do it) he isn't sure if hes going to get to -- this adds to his excitement , at this point he wants to orgasm badly... so when you finally just do it - he likes it.... a lot. At least my guy does :[)Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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I think it varies on the person and the time. Sometimes I'm the same way, if I'm almost there and he backs off for a few to put his attention somewhere else, it seems it takes me a little longer to get back to where I was.OK, teach an old lady a new trick!
exactly, how do you go about prolonging this experience for him? and if that sounds like a silly question I guess that's ok--but if I'm right at the edge of climax and he stops then it takes me ALOT longer to reach that point again and I don't necessarily feel that I reach a stronger climax. So is it safe to assume that this is not the norm?
So share some secrets here because I would love for my hubby to be a quivering mass of flesh when I get through with him
But I think men may be different... HD is right, you have to time it right, if you back off for too long, it may take a bit to get it going again. So it is, in my opinion all about timing. There are little things that happen to my DH's body, when he's real close, I look for those silent signals and plan my attack.
Experiment and have fun! The first time you can make it happen, he should be a that quivering mass of flesh you're looking for.
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