[NDNICEGUY]

That even more says to me she was looking for something/someone else that wasn't you if she just said you "would not understand." (I can understand anal being out of the question as some women just aren't into that at all, UNLESS she did it with out people before you) It sounds like she really had some issue that had nothing to do with you. If you really tried to talk to her and she wouldn't cooperate then you're better off without her frankly.

She never did it with me, tried it before me did not really like it but yet when we were married and she was out fooling around almost EVERY guy that was involved in there group sex, orgy or whatever you want to call it got a chance to try it. That is what hurts most, I never got truly a chance for many things and these guys got whatever they wanted to. Worst part is it was not only her but her friend also that was/is doing it. Is there really women out there that find this enjoyable, not only the orgy thing but being double penetrated while servicing another man orally? I am thinking out loud now, sorry!

[Miya]

Is there really women out there that find this enjoyable, not only the orgy thing but being double penetrated while servicing another man orally?

Maybe there are but nobody I know of I'm definitely NOT one of them. It seems too y to me.

[NDNICEGUY]

Maybe there are but nobody I know of I'm definitely NOT one of them. It seems too y to me.

Well some new information on this whole thing. I just found out that there are 4 or 5 wives that have been involved in this whole thing and I am the only one so far that has found out. I was not told who but I have a good idea and no proof other than my ex said that part of the fun was people watching and somebody video taped. Now as bad as it sounds I would love to find the tape and put a crinkle in there fun. Do I say anything? What do I do? I know who the one woman is and her and her husband are divorced now also but not sure on the other women, I am about 99% sure who the other woman is and she is about 48 years old and been married for 25 years, what I would call a pillar of the community and a person would never guess her to be this way. I am thinking that my wife feels this is funny and has no problems sharing as I have heard a lot the last day or so since I asked about it. Lets put it his way, only in the movies but in this case it was not.

[2HOT4U]

I guess if you are not sure I would not say anything. If you did find out or saw the video what would you do?

[Kallygirlie]

Yeah< if you dont know I wouldn't say but I can see why you would want the tape. I'm sorry but what you are explaining is something you'd see on the internet. UHG!!! I know no one who would like that. Have you checked online, maybe it got put online by a friend. [edited] I dont know of this site from experience but when My best friend lived with me it was in my computer history. I pulled it up and saw her doing someting I didnt want to see with her ex husband. anywhoo, i am really sorry about all this

[bootyliciousmona]

Usually this is based on common understanding and full agreement between the couple involved.If they both agree to the idea of having 3 or 4 guys having sex wih the lady partner,what's wrong with that?
I was married for over 16 years and we reached an agreement that no matter what sex urge is there,no one is allowed to cheat on the other and as a result my husband agreed to bring me or watch me having sex with other guys as I am always over-sexed and he can't satisfy me sexually.We are both so happy and we trust each other and love each other much more.So I think nothing wrong if both husband and wife accept the idea and mutually agree to it.We feel we are much happier now and whenever I feel I need more guys to have sex with,my husband is there to support me.

[NDNICEGUY]

how often do you do that? Can I ask when you are with multiple men what you/they do? I am trying to comprehend what happens, in our relationshihp it was never talked about or was not an agreement, she just went out and did it.

[jr]

EX....for a reason!

The best thing you typed in your message was.....EX......he should be your ex.

It's time to move on to someone who loves you for you and doesn't want to "share" you with anybody.

Your EX watches way to much porn!

[danceintx]

As soon as I read his wish I felt like he was probably a control freak and more than likely a mysoginist. He wants to see you demeaned. I would run away from any man who asks this of me, not normal.

[Isabellacat]

He sounds like someone who watches alot of porn. Sounds like he gets off watching other men have sex and fantasizes you having sex with other men as if like watching a porno but with his own girlfriend in it. Weird!

I would never agree to that....with 3 guys!?! Ew gross...sounds like it would be a rough night. One is enough for me.I'd rather sit on 3 different toilets than have sex with 3 different strange guys lol.