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  • caterpillar79
    Veteran Member
    • Mar 2009
    • 3895

    Originally posted by pocari
    I have the same thing, I am 5 feet 2 inch tall. and it hurts everytime my bf do the deed (and yes, his penis is big). and ended up having some kind of urinary tract infection after some frequent sex. idk, is it cuz of the size or not... still a mystery for me..
    It is mostly due to the high frequency of the deed. Your organ gets irritated and thus gets more susceptible to infection. You have to make sure you have washed both "holes" prior to the "deed". Use only one hand for that V, and the other hand for the A when you wash. Direction in washing should be from the top of your vagina, down, not the other way around. Also, remember to ask your other half to brush his teeth thouroughly before giving you oral. The tongue harbors a lot of bacteria that could harm your precious. Likewise, make sure that you pee after the intercourse, and then wash yourself.

    Other than that, it must be other factors such as pH imbalance, kidney issues (I had a kidney stone before, and pH is a factor). Also, my body had to adjust its pH with my partner. Hope this helps.

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    • caterpillar79
      Veteran Member
      • Mar 2009
      • 3895

      Originally posted by WildChild
      LOL absolutely. I'd rather have a caring man who wants to share pleasure than one who relies on size anyday.

      But ladies, does size really matter? To some extent, I have to be honest - it does to me.

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      • pocari
        Senior Member
        • Jan 2009
        • 116

        Originally posted by caterpillar79
        It is mostly due to the high frequency of the deed. Your organ gets irritated and thus gets more susceptible to infection. You have to make sure you have washed both "holes" prior to the "deed". Use only one hand for that V, and the other hand for the A when you wash. Direction in washing should be from the top of your vagina, down, not the other way around. Also, remember to ask your other half to brush his teeth thouroughly before giving you oral. The tongue harbors a lot of bacteria that could harm your precious. Likewise, make sure that you pee after the intercourse, and then wash yourself.

        Other than that, it must be other factors such as pH imbalance, kidney issues (I had a kidney stone before, and pH is a factor). Also, my body had to adjust its pH with my partner. Hope this helps.
        yeah i think so. Thanks for posting, Caterpillar! so We shouldnt do that very often in a short period of time, n yeah i think my V was too tired so in the end it hurt when I peed. I was afraid I had UTI as I never had b4 in my life. but now its gettingbetter after a month.. abstinence also... I'll wait til Im fully recover from this.
        Just living is not enough. One must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower. ~Hans Christian Anderson

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        • caterpillar79
          Veteran Member
          • Mar 2009
          • 3895

          Originally posted by pocari
          yeah i think so. Thanks for posting, Caterpillar! so We shouldn't do that very often in a short period of time, n yeah i think my V was too tired so in the end it hurt when I peed. I was afraid I had UTI as I never had b4 in my life. but now its getting better after a month.. abstinence also... I'll wait til Im fully recover from this.
          Glad it helps! But if you are experiencing discomfort (i.e. pain during urination, burning sensation, urgency/frequency issues with peeing), go to a urologist and get checked. You might need to have a urine culture. UTI can be life-threatening, so don't leave it to the air, wait for a month till it clears up. You need antibiotics to kill the bacteria. DON'T DELAY!

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          • pocari
            Senior Member
            • Jan 2009
            • 116

            yes right after that day of frequent sex I had the experience of burning sensation when urinating, well I dont know what burning feels like, but when I pee, it seemed I need to pee more to end it, but actually no more urine and that made it hurt. I was panic like crazy I took cranberry pills and drank water like crazy but now I dont take it anymore cuz I think I'm okay, no more hurt when I pee... It's been a month now and I think it's getting better... do you think it can get better by nature?

            I read you had UTI before, so are you fine now?

            haha, size does matter but what if too big? which one you prefer? I am thinking... if it's too big... I will be a paranoid. haha. but I hope my V can adjust his P... -_-"

            cheers
            Just living is not enough. One must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower. ~Hans Christian Anderson

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            • WildChild
              Banned
              • Sep 2008
              • 14142

              Ladies you can take this to a UTI thread, lets not hijack this one please.

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              • caterpillar79
                Veteran Member
                • Mar 2009
                • 3895

                Originally posted by WildChild
                Ladies you can take this to a UTI thread, lets not hijack this one please.
                Sorry...we'll be good.

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                • caterpillar79
                  Veteran Member
                  • Mar 2009
                  • 3895

                  Originally posted by pocari
                  yes right after that day of frequent sex I had the experience of burning sensation when urinating, well I dont know what burning feels like, but when I pee, it seemed I need to pee more to end it, but actually no more urine and that made it hurt. I was panic like crazy I took cranberry pills and drank water like crazy but now I dont take it anymore cuz I think I'm okay, no more hurt when I pee... It's been a month now and I think it's getting better... do you think it can get better by nature?
                  You could be, but still get checked for sure.

                  Originally posted by pocari
                  I read you had UTI before, so are you fine now?
                  Yes, I am.


                  Originally posted by pocari
                  haha, size does matter but what if too big? which one you prefer? I am thinking... if it's too big... I will be a paranoid. haha. but I hope my V can adjust his P... -_-"

                  cheers
                  Our equipment is meant to adjust with our partner's. It is a muscle and tends to be able to stretch. At first "acquaintance" though, you should be gentle and make sure you are lubed. Your partner must make sure you are highly aroused so your natural lube comes out - that is better...and also, your equipment would swell, and so the first few moments of thrusts would feel more comfortable. ( hey, I am no expert on this...lol)

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                  • Awoman2
                    Member
                    • Oct 2009
                    • 86

                    I never associated a short cervix with a woman's height. Are they necessarily related or is this just a coincidence?

                    Personally, I like a well-endowed man but I have never had an issue with a man of any size and those I've been with have been average (5.5) to over-average (8). I liked taking the big one inch by inch because when I first saw it I was astounded to be holding something so big in my hands, but taking it was a pleasure. The wielder was pretty darn good with it, too, and I'm not too snug but tight enough that my current lover who's about 6-6.5 inches comments positively about it.

                    I really envy that 8-inch guy for getting inside me. I wish I could've felt what he did, lol. From behind, he just had to be patient because that position allowed the most depth, but it was good.

                    In fact I wish he could swap tools with my current, since I love him way more and would absolutely eat him alive with a size like that.

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                    • Curious4
                      Junior Member
                      • Jul 2009
                      • 4

                      I wish he could swap tools with my current
                      Does your current know this?

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