[Muffin]

I was just wondering, what was/is your best orgasm like? Opinions? The reason I'm wondering is, I have had orgasms while mastubating and I've been told it's a cliteral orgasm. and it feels great, but... it doesn't last too long, it's not super intense (usually) In fact, building up to it feels more intense than acctually acheiving it for me.

In movies and books and stuff (I don't know about porn) they make it seem like the amazing aweinspiring thing. Is it?

I've read that men and women experiance it differently... Men have fast intense orgasms, and women have less intense but long orgasms.... so why does it seem so short for me when I masturbate?

[Guest]

I was just wondering, what was/is your best orgasm like? Opinions? The reason I'm wondering is, I have had orgasms while mastubating and I've been told it's a cliteral orgasm. and it feels great, but... it doesn't last too long, it's not super intense (usually) In fact, building up to it feels more intense than acctually acheiving it for me.

How long is short? And are you talking about the super tingly feeling or the contractions, or the length of both together?

If that's the only type of orgasm you've had, how can you measure whether it is intense or not?

I've read that men and women experiance it differently... Men have fast intense orgasms, and women have less intense but long orgasms.... so why does it seem so short for me when I masturbate?

Meh - its different for everyone. I've read that woman's orgasms supposedly last longer, but again - they don't expound on exactly what they are timing.

[Muffin]

I basing it on what I've experience verses what I've been told to expect or read about. That why i brought up the movies or books.

The tingly feeling leading up to it can get pretty intense (as far as I'm conserned, i don't know how to compare it to others feelings, because as you said it's they only thing I've felt), the pulsing afterwards is great, but i would like it to be stronger, and to last longer than like... 10 seconds....

[Muffin]

Basicaaly, many places describe a women's orgasm as an explosion! The time it last varies. But... they say you can feel it through your whole body, I just get a little pulseing at the surface. And while I do feel very relaxed, in fact it has helped me sleep on a number of occassions, I don't feel... I don't know, fully satisfied... or at least, as satisfied as I think I can be.

[WildChild]

This is like asking someone to describe a taste or smell. Really hard to do. Have to think about this.

[Guest]

Basicaaly, many places describe a women's orgasm as an explosion! The time it last varies. But... they say you can feel it through your whole body, I just get a little pulseing at the surface. And while I do feel very relaxed, in fact it has helped me sleep on a number of occassions, I don't feel... I don't know, fully satisfied... or at least, as satisfied as I think I can be.

If you don't feel fully satisfied, do it again.

[SinisterUrge]

..... it feels great, but... it doesn't last too long, it's not super intense (usually) In fact, building up to it feels more intense than acctually acheiving it for me.

You've already discovered that the build-up is your favorite part, now you need to work on what men sometimes call "fighting the tide" or keeping yourself on the orgasm event horizon.

Tantrists have a very long history of using very specific breathing patterns, and some people use a metronome or other steady cadence device (ticking watch, CD of a steady heart or drumbeat etc etc). The basic theory is that if you don't speed-up you delay the inevitable. Some people spend years of their lives attempting to reach an indefinite hold (which much like Kung-Fu; You can never reach perfection but still you practice). The longer the hold, the better the eventual orgasm (same theory as hatha yoga or marathon running; the longer you work the better you feel when you're done)

[Steph33]

In the right position(s) I can cum 3-4 times, and the 3rd and 4th seem to get more intense though aren't 2 seconds apart. My b/f loves laying on his back and me lowering myself on him to give me oral. That was something past guys didn't care for. But I "assist" in it and that is probably my best was to cum multiple times. I get major loud and into it, he came sometimes ejaculate from the pleasure he gets "doing his thing" while hearing me and my reaction. During that 4th one I often think to myself "I'm never letting out alone where there are other women or out of my sight", laugh.

[Goodgirl93]

Well when I first started masturbating...(2 years ago)my orgasms wud only last maybe 4 seconds.but now they last like 10-15 seconds.I guess overtime they get more intense.also if you are about to orgasm,stop.wait a few sconds then start again.almost let yourself orgasm.but don't.hold out a few times and you'l find that the orgasm are very intense.

[Texinator]

I often find the sensation leading up to be more pleasurable than the orgasm itself. The orgasm is kinda like a 'party pooper' then.

But circumstances and time permitting, if I stop for a moment and delay the orgasm and then continue again, and I repeat this a few times, I can keep up the sensation for a longer time and the resulting orgasm is much more powerful.

I once did that over a three day period. Not all day every day of course, or anything close to it, but just maybe an hour a day was good enough to make for quite the finale on the third day. I swear I saw a little mushroom cloud. Good think that particular experiment was solo though, because the resulting explosion could have sprained someone's vagina.