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  • WildChild
    Banned
    • Sep 2008
    • 14142

    Gave this some more thought and while I'd like to have sex daily, what I REALLY want is to make love.

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    • pretzel
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2009
      • 1557

      Couple of times a week is more than enough. Making love at least on one of those days would be even better. That's my pipe dream.

      Reality: It ain't going to happen.

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      • the wench
        Veteran Member
        • Dec 2009
        • 239

        i wana b at it as much as i can now im protected agen....alot of missed tym 2 make up 4 haha

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        • Mes T
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2009
          • 2678

          If you don't have sex/make love with your guy often enough, do you feel like it creates a distance between you two? I've realized that that's what happens to me in this particular relationship, boo!

          Originally posted by the wench
          i wana b at it as much as i can now im protected agen....alot of missed tym 2 make up 4 haha
          Ha!

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          • Texinator
            Veteran Member
            • Sep 2009
            • 5556

            That's only natural. Making love brings two people closer together emotionally and spiritually. But if it isn't done often enough then that intimacy is not going to be maintained and the two will start feeling farther apart.

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            • Guest

              Originally posted by WildChild
              Gave this some more thought and while I'd like to have sex daily, what I REALLY want is to make love.
              I agree! There is honestly nothing better, I love that closeness!!

              During the time that we have been less active, that is definatley what I have missed most. So not having sex/ making love can make you further apart. Even though I said that the longest we have went is a week, thats true however during that time it was also strictly sex, not making love. For me I need to feel our closeness by making love, not just sex.

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              • Texasred
                Veteran Member
                • Oct 2009
                • 1216

                Originally posted by WildChild
                Gave this some more thought and while I'd like to have sex daily, what I REALLY want is to make love.
                Yessss!

                My SO and I had been apart for two weeks as she recuperated from (cosmetic) surgery + radiation treatment for breast cancer, and we found that, far from creating a distance between us, the time we spent apart made us feel like we needed to catch up for lost time.
                Our lovemaking now is far more intense than it was before, and the closeness it brings is just incredible.
                And once a day isn't near enough for either of us!

                - TR

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                • Little
                  • Feb 2007
                  • 4329

                  Multiple times a week. But thanks to misplaced libido (where did you go, my libido??) lack of BC (haven't had "proper" sex in over a month) and an area that gets sore too quickly ... I'm relegated to 2-3 times a month. Thankfully my man is understanding.
                  What is up with not wanting it when you've got it, anyways? I used to climb the walls every day, now it's like ... hmm, I could do it but don't really feel like it. I'm a frigid old woman :P
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                  • Explorer44
                    Veteran Member
                    • Oct 2009
                    • 800

                    Originally posted by Little
                    Multiple times a week. But thanks to misplaced libido (where did you go, my libido??) lack of BC (haven't had "proper" sex in over a month) and an area that gets sore too quickly ... I'm relegated to 2-3 times a month. Thankfully my man is understanding.
                    What is up with not wanting it when you've got it, anyways? I used to climb the walls every day, now it's like ... hmm, I could do it but don't really feel like it. I'm a frigid old woman :P
                    Now Little, these things can be cyclical you know....and won't it be great when you cycle back around?

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                    • stressed
                      Veteran Member
                      • Jun 2009
                      • 1914

                      Once or twice a day, but we're down to once a week. Yep, life' tough.

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