[Texinator]

Looking up at his eyes while you do it really gets them going (at least in my limited experience in this field) Guys??

Every once in a while. Just don't stare the entire time!

[kygirl]

I think it depends on the guy honestly. The deepthroating thing is okay but there are a lot of other things too. I definitely think it's important to seem very into it. Not in a fake way but also don't act like you just can't wait for it to be over. I also find it useful to use your hands, tease a bit, and just try some variety. I also like to do it when it's kinda not expected because I think that also makes the guy feel like you want to do it, rather than him having to ask or imply. Sometimes you can alse use your guy's expressions, reactions to determine when he really likes something. I've even been known to ask for pointers.

Hope that helps!

[SinisterUrge]

Looking up at his eyes while you do it really gets them going (at least in my limited experience in this field) Guys??

Nope. I keep my eyes closed and actively try to ejaculate as quickly as possible because if I pass the two minute mark my partner quits. Staring just wastes time.

[LauraLiu]

i agree with everyone else on here. Dont use your teeth. i never thought of that until i ended up biting my bfs ....so te best thing you could do is not use your teeth

Hey a little nibble never hurt anybody lol. ^_^

[LauraLiu]

Nope. I keep my eyes closed and actively try to ejaculate as quickly as possible because if I pass the two minute mark my partner quits. Staring just wastes time.

I agree I never made eye contact before, never seen the use of it.. i always thought it was funny and weird to make eye contact when you are in that sort of position, lol.

[WildChild]

You don't have to deep throat or even take in your mouth if you aren't comfortable with that. Keep things nice and wet though and you can use your hands, tongue and lips. You can lead into it or just start right in, little kisses on his body, trailing your tongue across his skin, you can tease a bit before you get down to business by getting everywhere except his penis. The inner thighs are sensitive, the taint, lick and circle his balls with your tongue, then gently pull one into your mouth. A kind of swallowing action usually gets a good response. But do pay attention to how he is responding, it you aren't sure he enjoys something - ask.

Then you can start running your tongue up one side of the shaft and down the other and around the rim of the head. Just explore and enjoy it. If you want to take the head or more in your mouth you can keep your lips curled over your teeth, I find the tongue over the lower teeth uncomfortable and it's nice to be to use it still. Once you get going and if you keep it really wet you can get your hands into the act and he probably won't know what you are using- mouth, hands - they don't care as long as it feels good.
Don't let him grab your head unless you are really comfortable with that (definitely not if you are a newbie). It takes the control away from you and often times men get just a bit carried away then. Personally I'm not into being gagged, some guys really get off on that and some women do it - it has to be your call.

When you have the time it can be a nice change to take this really slow and tenderly. Start with a scalp massage and then move into a full massage, working his back, glutes, legs and feet. You can either have him turn over and do the front or not. But get his entire body and then start work into an hj or bj. If he's on him tum it can be fun to start licking and sucking between his legs for a while before he turns over.

Men can get so into the hard and fast, masterbating or when having intercourse and often want it that way orally, slowing it down can be a very intense and different experience.

[Isabellacat]

For me alcohol really helps when it comes to giving good bj's. Kills the gag reflex so deep throating feels alot easier. I always ask what they like too.

[LauraLiu]

For me alcohol really helps when it comes to giving good bj's. Kills the gag reflex so deep throating feels alot easier. I always ask what they like too.

LMAO i thought that was just me!

[caterpillar79]

In addition, try to make noise while 'on the job', vibration would feel great for him.

[Miya]

Every once in a while. Just don't stare the entire time!

Yeah that's what I meant Tex

Of course as Sinister said I guess if she's getting bored after only 2 minutes then he'd do better to keep his eyes closed. haha Wow 2 minutes only? I've kept it going for almost an hour before (though with pauses here and there)