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  • Texinator
    Veteran Member
    • Sep 2009
    • 5556

    Vibrator? Maybe his tongue is just not fast enough then.

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    • Guest

      Originally posted by Tex
      Vibrator? Maybe his tongue is just not fast enough then.
      In my experience, it's more about consistency, than it is speed.

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      • Fish
        Senior Member
        • Oct 2009
        • 143

        I've only had an orgasm once or twice during oral but oh boy does it get me worked up! I'm certainly not complaining. I do agree that it has more to do with consistency than speed. Also I think the other part of is that I like him to be close to me when I orgasm and he simply isn't able to hold me like I want while he is down.

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        • Guest

          Originally posted by Fish
          Also I think the other part of is that I like him to be close to me when I orgasm and he simply isn't able to hold me like I want while he is down.
          Put your legs over his arms and let him hold your waist or butt or your stomach or breasts or even hands. That may help.

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          • Texinator
            Veteran Member
            • Sep 2009
            • 5556

            Originally posted by OhThereYouAre
            In my experience, it's more about consistency, than it is speed.
            I was just thinking that if using her hands or his tongue aren't doing the job but she does masturbate, maybe she's using a vibrator for masturbation and is overdoing it. Hence the tongue joke. She might have difficulties responding to other types of stimulation if she gets too used to the vibrator.

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            • sulfurics_girl
              Junior Member
              • Oct 2009
              • 5

              Yeah, I think I've just gotten too used to my vibrator. Which really sucks if that means I've desensitized myself. Do you think if I stop using it all together it would eventually start to work again?

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              • Guest

                Originally posted by sulfurics_girl
                Yeah, I think I've just gotten too used to my vibrator. Which really sucks if that means I've desensitized myself. Do you think if I stop using it all together it would eventually start to work again?
                Yes, you've probably desensitized yourself. If you stop using your vibrator it will most likely come back.

                Stop using it for a couple weeks. You'll be amazed at what you can feel down there.

                Good luck.

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                • Guest

                  And if you decide to go this route, keep us updated on the results!

                  My guess is, you'll also be able to use your hand again.

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                  • sulfurics_girl
                    Junior Member
                    • Oct 2009
                    • 5

                    Haha, well I will keep you guys posted then. It may take a few weeks but I know it will be worth it. in the mean time it's probably going to really frustrating though...

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                    • Guest

                      Originally posted by sulfurics_girl
                      Haha, well I will keep you guys posted then. It may take a few weeks but I know it will be worth it. in the mean time it's probably going to really frustrating though...
                      When you get really worked up...you'll be surprised how sensitive you can get, and what you can accomplish with limited resources.

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