[Awoman2]

Oops, not demanding, demeaning. Don't know how to edit post.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

LOL.

CW - you're setting him up for failure.

I'll be more realistic, yet less positive.

Brian - even if you treat some women like gold, they will take advantage and fail to reciprocate your caring actions. Men can do it to. Again...more of a personality issue.

Make sure you find a woman who is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside.

Good luck.

HAHA,

OTYA, I was "only" talking about in the bedroom If she doesn't feel beautiful there, then she isn't going to let her inhibitions go, guard down and well he won't get much now will he...

[alicat]

giving is a learned pleasure (imho). one thing you should never do is FORCE her to do something she thinks is degrading. I, for one, would not like my husband ejaculating on my face...ESPECIALLY if it was unexpected...stuff like that should be mutual. It is quite possible for a woman to give oral without swallowing. I can't always swallow but it doesn't distract from the subject at hand.

[anonymouswhitefemale]

It's an easy solution, dump her and find a girl that genuinely craves cum, they're out there.

Putting up with bad sex doesn't do anyone any favours, and a girl that's got so many mental barriers to things won't be that fun even if she forces herself to comply. It's a lost cause.

[Little]

It's an easy solution, dump her and find a girl that genuinely craves cum, they're out there.

Putting up with bad sex doesn't do anyone any favours, and a girl that's got so many mental barriers to things won't be that fun even if she forces herself to comply. It's a lost cause.

For all Anon's crassness, I completely agree with him.
Why make a girl miserable by haranguing her to give you oral sex that she hates? Why make yourself miserable trying to work with her? I don't believe you've yet mentioned being in love with her. You're awfully misogynistic-sounding. You seem utterly tired of women who don't want to have anything to do with their sexual selves.
So find a woman who does. WC and I have laughed at you because we know they're out there and your girlfriend is missing out. What else can you possibly do about it?

[ThexMrs]

Maybe it's the idea of 250 million possible half babies going down their throat or on their face? Lol... I have no problem with this. I agree, personality issue 100%.

[x.st.angel.x]

i feel as though i should put in some input :P Its personality for sure but i think its experiences as well. My first boyfriend pretty much made me feel guilty that i wouldnt go down on him. I was new to everything and it just felt weird at first. Now things have changed, im with the most amazing guy, he gave me so much time to get comfortable with him and i enjoy pleasuring him!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Ooh ahh x.st.angels.. How true that can be.

It's like the men want the "tart" in the bedroom but "lady" in front of family/friends/collegues but then questions the "tart experience" of what has been / not been / done before...

Sad..

[RainbowDinosaurs]

Maybe it's the idea of 250 million possible half babies going down their throat or on their face?

Bwahahaha! Half babies.
That was great.
And it makes everything sound a wee bit creepier.
But. Funneh.

[PJhavinfunagain]

i feel as though i should put in some input :P Its personality for sure but i think its experiences as well. My first boyfriend pretty much made me feel guilty that i wouldnt go down on him. I was new to everything and it just felt weird at first. Now things have changed, im with the most amazing guy, he gave me so much time to get comfortable with him and i enjoy pleasuring him!

Well said! This is a big part of what I was getting at but said it more eloquently!