[Guest]

Ooh ahh x.st.angels.. How true that can be.

It's like the men want the "tart" in the bedroom but "lady" in front of family/friends/collegues but then questions the "tart experience" of what has been / not been / done before...

Sad..

Women are just as contradictory in what they want.

They want a man to look after and care for them, but they also want a guy who lets them be independent.

They want a guy who is loving and romantic, but also a bad boy who acts like a man and makes them feel dominated.

[WildChild]

Women are just as contradictory in what they want.

LOL. So are men. In minutes they can go from macho to child. They want to be in charge but can't handle making their own doc or dentist appts. They want a woman to be their mother, secretary, housecleaner, income earner, available for sex when they want it but not when she does, but they also want to be independent.

Darlin' these generalisations just don't wash. We can stereotype all day long and counter every one of them. You have to deal with people; male and female as individuals. We all have times when we are strong and times when we need a hand. We all need to love and be loved.

Until you get past this thinking, guess what you will find? Exactly what you expect.

[Guest]

LOL. So are men. In minutes they can go from macho to child. They want to be in charge but can't handle making their own doc or dentist appts. They want a woman to be their mother, secretary, housecleaner, income earner, available for sex when they want it but not when she does, but they also want to be independent.

Darlin' these generalisations just don't wash. We can stereotype all day long and counter every one of them. You have to deal with people; male and female as individuals. We all have times when we are strong and times when we need a hand. We all need to love and be loved.

Until you get past this thinking, guess what you will find? Exactly what you expect.

I wouldn't even attempt to counter, everything you say is true. But its true about women as well, they are never happy with men.

I think the main problem is when we try to understand the opposite sex. Most men admit they are clueless when it comes to women. But women like to think men are simple and easy to understand.

[WildChild]

NO they don't seem to be, but quite a few of the men here keep telling us how simple they are and that the problem is that women give them credit for being more complex than they really are.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Men think women are complex and very emotional.like spending money, act as a Mother and.. they have no idea how to handle them.

Women think men are selfish, rarely show emotions, can be opinionated, still a child regardless of age, especially when they reach 40 OMG, then they have to have a Motorbike, or sports car, or boat so they can feel young again But, women can actually handle men because these appear to be the main traits.

How can a man work out emotions? He wasn't born with intuition and emotional genes, predominately, we were given this as we bare children.

And, then women whine lol.. about all of the traits I mentioned above over and over to the man. Because she sees them but he doesn't.

CW

[KRYSTAL50MILLION]

from krystal50million-oral sex

I am having problems with my girlfriend lately, and I would like some advice from a female perspective.

It seems when it comes to men giving women oral sex there are no problems. Most men like doing it, they like the taste, and they enjoy making the woman feel good. And understandably women enjoy receiving it also.

However when it comes to women giving men oral sex the BS starts. "Its degrading" "I don't like the taste/texture" are two of my girlfriends favourites.

How is letting me cum in your mouth/face more degrading than me getting a mouthful of sniz juice? Is the taste of sperm really worse than vaginal liquid?

But I digress. I don't really know why my my girl hates it so much. She told me cumming on her face was like "****ing" on her. Is she for real? Comparing semen to urine? A sexual fluid to a waste product? Is vaginal fluid like menstrual blood? I don't think so.

So whats the deal ladies? How can I encourage my girl to be less of a prude, or are the only non-prudish women in porn? Is my fantasy of finding a woman who is uninhibited and enjoys sex as much as I do just that, a fantasy?

I think she is being selfish, a hypocrite wants to be liked. tell her there is nothing wrong "with sperm, it's like MILK. I HAD GUYS COME ON MY CHEST

[acerousme]

bahahahahaha...ah man this thread made me laugh.

Not all non-prudeish women are in porn. Trust me.

[hello_pitty]

Brian, all women are different. Some like oral and some don't. I love giving my husband oral, when i'm in the mood for it (i'm pregnant right now so even my toothbrush makes me gag). I don't like cum in my mouth, but i've let him cum all over my face and my chest in the shower. For me, it's really the taste of semen that turns me off...I can stand small amounts (pre cum) but the taste is not something I like.

I honestly don't see why your girlfriend thinks it's degrading or gross (besides the taste or texture, but thats a personal issue) If a woman doesn't like it, then she doesn't, plain and simple. You might need to find another partner because it sounds like you two might be a mismatch in the sex department...

[caterpillar79]

All I can say is, Welcome to the Dance of Life and Love, Brian!

[x.st.angel.x]

lol can we come to a conclusion :P and a fair one at that