[Guest]

I really don't see how a guy looking at pictures of OTHER women in order to orgasm or become arroused does anything to make a relationship better.

I really don't see how an orgasmic woman using a sex toy in order to orgasm or become aroused makes a relationship better. Especially since it makes it tougher for her partner to satisfy her.

The majority of men having sex are also having orgasms, yet there is a large percentage of females having sex that arent having orgasms. Even some with compassionate lovers never experience one.

You know I have to chalk that up to the women not being vocal. Of all the women I've ever been with, maybe one brought up the subject of orgasms. Otherwise it just happened on its own or I probed a little to find out what did it for her.

So a guy being able to provide his s.o who has difficulty orgasmsing with pleasurable sensations with the use of a toy CAN help them...BOTH... because he can share in her pleasure, be a part of it.

I agree here to a certain extent. But sex toys, especially the ones built for females, by and large do not provide men with much pleasure.

Please do explain how a heterosexual female can at all share in the pleasure of her man (who is perfectly capable of getting erections and orgasming with her and without porn) masturbating to pictures of other women. Please tell me how that can be a bonding moment... I don't see it.

I would hardly call a solo session with a sex toy a bonding moment either.

[ThexMrs]

SOMETIMES it's okay to get the appetite there, as long as he goes to the right place to eat

This is one reason why I love you, haha. You're so funny.

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Anyways... I like porn occasionally. I will watch it if I am having a hard time getting there by myself. It's just really boring a lot of the times. It's the same thing over and over and over again. On top of that, what woman moans when a guy is creaming on her face? Get real... I agree with Tex on how porn is pretty plastic. So... It's a give or take. I don't need it.

As for a boyfriend, when I was a little bit younger, it bothered the heck out of me if a boyfriend did that. It made me feel like I wasn't good enough. Now that I am older I've come to accept it as a part of men/women sexual appetites.

[GlitterAndStuds]

Hehe.. I do what I can Glad there's someone here who really appreciates my oddball comments.

That's exactly why I don't get so much into the hardcore stuff... It's SO repetitive and gets SO uninteresting after a while. One of the things that I'd imagine is part of the fun of porn, is seeing how into it the people are. It's a hot thing. If the people look like they would keep checking the clock if there was one around, how is anyone supposed to like watching it? Let alone get off from it? M'eh. Like I said, every once in a while, it does wonders for me... but the super graphic stuff doesn't do it for me at all.

[DimeyScienceChick]

Hi JaXx!!
I love watching porn for a couple reasons. It gives you some pointers for different positions and techniques, and sometimes when I used my "bullet" vibrator, it helps to get me in the mood and get me off! I usually fast forward past the cheesy "introductions" though...LoL I may not be a pro at head, but watching a female sucking on a long, brick-hard d!ck...omg! Especially a dark-brown one (just my preference)...just gets me going

My man and I also watch porn together sometimes.

[blondie80]

Dependsd on the moods to how I feel about it I can swing either way and quickly! If everything is going well and we have sex as much as I want it and feel im getting enough attention then I like to watch it dont care if my partner watches it, when things get a little lacking then i turn into the anti christ of porn lol and its the worst thing in the world would be nice to have a middle spot of it sometime!

[and i'm not worried]

I like watching porn, it helps me get in the mood, or just to satisfy my sexual craving haha. I've watched porn with my bf before so we can get some new ideas or learn how to do something we didn't know how. Its quite fun and i think its healthy

[Steph33]

The overkill topic of the forum dozens of times.

One constant: if it's a problem in the relationship for the female, the guy she's with who lives on it thinks it's "harmless and normal."

[Pan Man]

There is another possibility, when my wife and I watch it makes me think of the things we do together. It certainly gets her fired up and that is not a bad thing for me. She knows when we get together she has my undivided attention.

[Hopeless Dork]

There is another possibility, when my wife and I watch it makes me think of the things we do together. It certainly gets her fired up and that is not a bad thing for me. She knows when we get together she has my undivided attention.

Thats my thing... some people think its stupid and hairsplitting... but I honestly don't get sad or feel insecure when my bf watches porn depicting sex acts. I can at least pretend or even sometimes actually believe that its the act turning him on, that he might even think of me a time or two.

The porn that wretches my guts is the just various pictures of girls , nude or dressed sexy in non overtly sexual poses. Just some chick grinning in her bikini being all he needed to orgasm makes me feel worthless.

I can dress pretty darn sexy if I must say so myself and rest assure I could not just STAND there grinning and it be enough for him to ejaculate... I seriously doubt it lol

[nightqueen]

Im new to this forum, I just signed up today! I think it is awesome that this is a place where we 'sisters' can talk all about sex, and anything else!!

anyway, back to the topic..

i was wondering what all your thoughts are on porn are?

*like how do you feel about your man watching porn?
*do you watch porn?
*do you like it and get turned on?

any thoughts at all on this would be appreciated. i am just intersested in this topic as peoples opinion vary so much.

I don't mind my Dh watching porn. He doesn't do it much though, and usually with me. (I don't mind if it does it without me either.) I actually like gay porn the best, since I want to see men more than women. It's not something we do all the time, but once in a while to spice things up.