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How rude! CW - I'm going to have to get you back for that! Lol.
Yeah, I've also been told that red meat can affect the smell and taste. That kind of grosses me out to think about. I mean... If you know what red meat smells like before you cook it, ew. Anyways, I'm sure it's not that bad.
I need some experience with women. This is killing me. I mean, yeah... I like guys and all but I want to try a woman. Like REALLY TRY her. Not just making out and fondling. That's boring after a while.Comment
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After sex last night we were yaking on this topic. For my b/f consuming me is more about closeness for him and hearing the pleasure I get, that makes him more excited. When I asked what he feels or "gets" that makes him to hard when he gives me oral his reply was my scent down there. As soon as he catches that he gets instant erect. When we moved in together we made a pact unless one of us is very ill, if 1 is horny the other will do something or whatever to get the other off.
He told me he could stand or deal with being erect or horny in most circumstances and just do without. But the kind of excited he gets from the scent "down there" if I wouldn't get him off, he'd have to masturbate to deal with it. He can feel himself shaking from the kind of excited he gets and its a total unique kind of aroused for him. After 4 years together the conversation made me finally understand why he often just wants to give me oral alone till I get off but not needing or thinking about intercourse, though he sometimes ejaculates just giving me oral. To bad men don't have similar "scent sense activators" that might arouse some women to that degree. Any man with a scent in the groin area its nasty and just shows poor hygiene and makes a woman want to avoid.Comment
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It has three specific appeals for me.
Aesthetics. I think the vagina (I know, not the correct technical term) is a beautiful, beautiful thing. All of it. Even when its closed and you see only a slit or maybe the protruding labia. But when you open it then it's almost like opening a flower. It's also great that every vagina is unique (that's part of the reason why I like pubic hair, because even though its not a part of the vagina I think its own unique nature adds another dimension to the character of a woman's pubic region).
I wonder if that thinking is hardwired into me. I don't find penises attractive at all for example, but is that because they really aren't attractive or because I'm straight and have no sexual attraction to men?
Intimacy. It's obviously extremely intimate when you have your mouth, face, and fingers buried in a woman's nether regions. It's difficult to get any closer to someone physically and I think there is also a strong emotional intimacy being expressed. And there is not just the vagina of course but also the back door, and using your mouth and fingers can add another layer of intimacy and pleasure. Just be careful with cross contamination!
Pleasure. Good sex consists of a variety of activities but I think it's difficult to top the pleasure a woman experiences from oral sex. I can't talk for all other guys but it's a huge turnon for me when a woman experiences and expresses that pleasure.Comment
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