[LanaBear]

I agree, overrated in my book, I can't focus.

[Awoman2]

Some of my most intense orgasms were in that position! My husband was so good licking in that position, when he knew i was coming he had to get out of the way because I bit anything in sight, and uncontrollably, too.

I still could give or take it because I'd never ask for it. With my lover who's over 6' its definitely less comfortable, harder to concentrate but he does a marvelous job literally 'going down' on me.

Do men even care what position they're in as long as they're inside your mouth?

[Steph33]

We tried it once, a hassle for him. He lives for oral on me and couldn't get inside me how he wanted. He prefers me to "ride" his face facing towards him and him laying on his back instead. To get that angle for oral on him, rare as he's not into getting oral, I'm on my knees and go down on him and he plays with me with his hand. But rare, he likes seeing my face and/or chest during oral sex and is a turn off for him when he can't.

[danceintx]

I think 69 is not bad, but I also have a hard time not being distracted by what I'm doing to get full pleasure from what he's doing. But I don't dislike it. I think missionary is under rated. I think it's amazing with my legs up around his shoulders.

[Texasred]

Trying to 69 when you're 6'8" doesn't really work.

Had a gf who was 6'-2, and it worked very nicely indeed!
But then I'm fairly short - 4" shorter than you!

[Texinator]

Haha! My tallest was around 5'7" I believe but I never tried it with her. Shortest one was around 5'1" but then it didn't even cross my mind.

[ItsASecret]

I am 5'1" and my boyfriend is 6'0"...bit of a struggle but we can both reach just fine. It does not change the fact that 69 itself is no fireworks show.

[Hopeless Dork]

I think 69 is something ppl THINK they should love because its used in porn so much... and understably so... in one single motion they can showcase 2 acts and for the viewer (wow thats hot, they probably think) so then everyone associates it with some kinda big sexy when the reality both parties are pretty much only giving 50% of their attention to the task at hand and only receiving 50% the pleasure they would if they weren't doing anything but feeling what was happening to them.

While some may sing its glories... I always think of 69 as the position an more sexually inexperienced person would give as their "favorite" when asked... because they think it sounds cool or have seen it performed in a movie and looked sexy.

Most that are more active sexually with their partner find positions that are more about pleasure than appearance.

[Melephant]

I'm in two minds about this one. Never used to appeal to me before i got with my fiance, but he's always requested i.... "ride" his face.... which the thought of doing that turns my face purple, i just wouldn't be comfortable with it unfortunately. But one day i was giving him a blow job when he just grabbed my hips and shoved me on his face lol :O At first i kinda wanted to cry with humiliation but i relaxed into it. Think it helps that i can just forget what position i'm in, though i do do my best to 'hover' rather than sit lol.

But i do agree that it's hard to really enjoy yourself when you're concentrating on someone else, though since then we have done it a few more times. Usually, i will use my hands aswell as my lips to please him, then if i feel like i'm going to come, i do my best to carry on with my hand and not bite his thigh lol.
He really gets off on it but i never let him come in that position, i always stop before he comes. That way, he's more eager to make me come and when i eventually let him, his orgasm seems to last forever and is much more intense

[pretzel]

Aside from it's something we don't do very often (or anything else for that matter) I happen to really enjoy it for a few reasons.

First and foremost it's not something I'd want to do if it were a passionate love making session. To me, there's a big difference between making love to my wife and the 2 of us having sex to enjoy each other. It's the latter where this would be most enjoyable.

It is both submissive and dominant at the same time. It's accuentated by fact that personally I love giving my wife the oral stimulation she wants. Having her that close and in that position is a big turn on for me.

At the same time, she is in complete control of me.

There are times when it is a much bigger turn on you aren't in control.