[Explorer44]

I don't know much about it, but isn't there a toy out there that has a remote? The idea being that you have this toy in you and are going about your day, and whenever your lover wishes, he can 'push your buttons'?

I have no idea if it works, but that would certainly increase the mystery and excitement factor....not knowing when he would pleasure you from afar...

[Texinator]

Haha, imagine that thing going off in the middle of a business meeting. 'Here we have the latest numbers for the quarter and as..hhhooolllyyy ssshhhiii'

[Melephant]

We've tried that -HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!! It's a pair of knickers that have a vibrator built into the gusset, your partner has the remote and can press it whenever he likes. One thing though, it's only quiet, but you can hear it vibrating and it may sound a bit dodgy to those not in the know!
There are variations in this, i heard something similar with an 'egg' thingy that you slip inside you and it does the same thing. Personally, i don't like the idea of walking round with a plastic egg inside my vagina, but each to her own!

Also i think a little light bondage is a good start when looking for knew things. Scarves, cuffs, ropes.. you may have tried this so maybe stepping it up a bit, maybe some S&M.

Uniforms are always fun, bondage gear, fetish clubs, maybe swingers clubs if that's your thing.
I think mostly spontenuity (am really rubbish speller, i apologise!) is the key. It does help keep things from getting boring, then there's role play, alfresco sex, sex on a washing machine is good, though i think most people have tried that..

Ugh, i had one bf who thought it would it would be hot to spit on my face as i came!! I was actually really p*ssed off and slapped him across the face (which was a mistake as then he got even more turned on). Clearly it wasn't the way to go with me but submissives may get a kick out of it.

I really like it aswell when my fiance ejaculates on me. I will either masturbate both of us, or we'll masturbate eachother, and he will cum on my vagina. Sometimes he may take me from behind and pull out at the last minute, squirting onto my butt, maybe my boobs or face. That's always hot.

Good luck

[Explorer44]

Haha, imagine that thing going off in the middle of a business meeting. 'Here we have the latest numbers for the quarter and as..hhhooolllyyy ssshhhiii'

Yes, but perhaps it just sounds like a cell phone vibrating? So, except for the fact that I couldn't talk and would be begging the closest hottie to take me right then and there........

This intrigues me

[kinn]

I would suggest maybe taking your boyfriend to a sex expo? Depends where you live, but in most large cities they have at least one sex expo a year. I've been there and there were a variety of different sexual equipment and accessories you can use to spice up your sex life. Go with your boyfriend and see what interests you both.

[jnd2009]

what about new places/around the house? my new favorite is the bathroom counter...must be the angle.

[kygirl]

Haha, imagine that thing going off in the middle of a business meeting. 'Here we have the latest numbers for the quarter and as..hhhooolllyyy ssshhhiii'

lol I was thinking the same thing Tex! Although it could be fun if you're not at work

[kygirl]

A new concept: Voice your feelings! Tell him what gets you off and what doesn't. Don't worry about offending him and go for it!

I'd have to agree! New things are great, but also make sure you are letting your partner know what you need to be pleased even without all the bells and whistles

[QueenGinger]

Thanx for the help. Lol I would love a sex swing but I think they're kinda expesive right? I already wear lingerie alot my man seems to really enjoy it and it makes me feel hot too. Haven't tried roll playing but we've joked about it when I've worn a women's dress suit that we should play teacher and student. I would like to do some BDSM (i take the submissive role) with him but not sure how to bring it up. I've looked at the porn he watches and theres no help there either it just the typical big boob blonde kosher stuff. Also he's like 3 inches shorter then me so the standing thing hasn't worked in the past...any suggestions on postions w/ shorter guys?

[rcoreyus]

As far as BDSM - you could get him a Christmas present of 4 lengths of soft rope and a riding crop....