I wasn't going to post this but it's been bothering me so here goes.
Here's a brief scenario.....surprise flowers delivered to me from my hubby a couple of hours before he gets home, I make him his favorite meal, and we make love and fall asleep in each others arms for the night.
Fast forward to next day....he and I briefly all through the day, telephone and remind each other of the previous night, you know the WOW effect for both of us. After lunch and before I had to finish up some last minute work, I called him to tell him what I was going to be wearing and then do to him when he got home and walked through the door. I wanted to change phones and unbeknowst to me, I accidentally hung up on him before I picked up the cordless. A second later the phone rang and I just knew it was him calling back. I proceded to tell him other things I was going to do, went into detail for seemed like forever until I stopped talking and there was a silence. I thought he would say something like 'I can't wait to get home' or 'I'll see if I can get off a little early' but instead.....his golfing buddy says "Uh, I'd really, uh I'd really, really like to but I think my wife and your husband would have a problem with that". I told him I'm sorry, thought he was my hubby calling back, and hung up. Immediately the phone rang and my hubby told me he had called back and got voicemail and wanted to know who was on the phone and I told him who and what I said and then what his buddy said. He thought it was hilarious but I didn't. I felt like crawling under the table.
I know that I'll be seeing his golfing buddy sooner rather than later and know he'll play it up too. He'll probably even tell his extremely jealous wife. They've been married a little over a year and several of her friends have given her the fitting name of 'snooty'. I told my hubby my feelings and my hurt and he just blows it off and tells me I need to, too. It doesn't work quite like that. I shared a portion of my soul to another man even if it was only a few minutes and the mistake hurts. Any ideas on how to get over it quicker? The same council I would give another woman under the same circumstances just hasn't come to fruition yet. HELP?
Here's a brief scenario.....surprise flowers delivered to me from my hubby a couple of hours before he gets home, I make him his favorite meal, and we make love and fall asleep in each others arms for the night.
Fast forward to next day....he and I briefly all through the day, telephone and remind each other of the previous night, you know the WOW effect for both of us. After lunch and before I had to finish up some last minute work, I called him to tell him what I was going to be wearing and then do to him when he got home and walked through the door. I wanted to change phones and unbeknowst to me, I accidentally hung up on him before I picked up the cordless. A second later the phone rang and I just knew it was him calling back. I proceded to tell him other things I was going to do, went into detail for seemed like forever until I stopped talking and there was a silence. I thought he would say something like 'I can't wait to get home' or 'I'll see if I can get off a little early' but instead.....his golfing buddy says "Uh, I'd really, uh I'd really, really like to but I think my wife and your husband would have a problem with that". I told him I'm sorry, thought he was my hubby calling back, and hung up. Immediately the phone rang and my hubby told me he had called back and got voicemail and wanted to know who was on the phone and I told him who and what I said and then what his buddy said. He thought it was hilarious but I didn't. I felt like crawling under the table.
I know that I'll be seeing his golfing buddy sooner rather than later and know he'll play it up too. He'll probably even tell his extremely jealous wife. They've been married a little over a year and several of her friends have given her the fitting name of 'snooty'. I told my hubby my feelings and my hurt and he just blows it off and tells me I need to, too. It doesn't work quite like that. I shared a portion of my soul to another man even if it was only a few minutes and the mistake hurts. Any ideas on how to get over it quicker? The same council I would give another woman under the same circumstances just hasn't come to fruition yet. HELP?
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