[laswell89]

so, i was wicked nervous when he suggested we should do it on top also. we were having sex for about a month before i decided to try it.

it was amazing, you get to control the speed, your boyfriend enjoys the view and you both enjoy the pleasure

and i personally love it when im on top and he grabs my hips and does the work. anyways, you should try it.

Oh I definitely plan to! haha. Just nervous, like you were. I'm really finding all these replies and ideas/thoughts helpful!

Do you think it would be ok if I just grabbed his hands and put them on my hips myself? If he doesn't do it first, that is... or is that weird?

[Cloudnine]

hmm, i don't think you would have to.
haha his hand will probably be wondering on your chest, hips and butt, i would let him do it.
it wont take him long to figure out don't worry about it.

[Texasred]

Oh I definitely plan to! haha. Just nervous, like you were. I'm really finding all these replies and ideas/thoughts helpful!

Do you think it would be ok if I just grabbed his hands and put them on my hips myself? If he doesn't do it first, that is... or is that weird?

There's nothing wrong at all with you putting his hands (or any other parts, for that matter!) exactly where you want them, and when!
I'd bet he'll find it a tremendous turn-on for you to "take charge" and show him what you want - how else will he know?

Try it and see.