[WildChild]

Unfortunately as we've noted before, the one with the lower drive usually calls the shots.

[Theresa]

Unfortunately as we've noted before, the one with the lower drive usually calls the shots.

Sad but true.

[happy ending]

my fella is 50 and would happily have sex at least once a day! when he was younger he was very adventurous, he has tried pretty much everything you could imagine, but now he is into intimacy, loving affectionate sex, i have asked to do some kinky things, but he will be like, no honey that could hurt you, we do the massage, candles thing, but i love it when he just grabs me and we have hot sweaty sex as well! i am so happy because my ex was into sex about once a year and it was blink and you'd miss it!

[Texinator]

we do the massage, candles thing, but i love it when he just grabs me and we have hot sweaty sex as well!

Variety is always good.

[Steph33]

Mine turns 46 soon, he horny daily and wants to do it all. A lot is compatibility with partner, mental/emotional aside from physical. We communicate like I never had before and do things he didn't ever get to do till into his early 40s with me. Maybe pent up want, maybe mature enough to appreciate it more, but he gets cranked up easily. We have sex, or he gives me oral till I cum, or both, daily or more unless one of us is ill. One thing we agreed on, if one needs the other takes care of even if not in the mood at that instant. If he's tired or meds make intercourse difficult and I want him, his face is between my legs in an instant and he makes it happen for me every time. He's easier, he likes so much stuff it's take your pick to get him off, LOL. That helps a lot for both, and VERY rare that one can't get the other in heat when wanted.

We're best friends and prefer hanging with each other over anyone else, sex aside, and don't live to work. We work to live, time together is priority over material stuff. So that's a factor. We're equal and decide equally. At the same time I know he's from a generation of needs to "take care of her" and allow and appreciate it, something I never had. Over three years and except when he was in the hospital or ill, he makes me breakfast in bed every Sunday morning. While I eat he cleans the bathroom cause I HATE cleaning the bathroom. Hard not to want him daily for that alone, so we have total respect but we're also each others private (loving) ****s

[SFDad]

51 here. I still am excited by much of the same things as I was before, but certain thing attract me more than when I was younger, such as legs.

Biggest difference is recovery time, and sometimes the erection doesn't stay as hard without direct stimulation. I dont get the spontanious almost painful erections of my early 20's, but I can't say I really miss them.

I love almost everything about sex, and while I am not getting as much as I would enjoy, when it happens its pretty darn good.

Oh I suppose I miss some of the easy physicality of sex in the 20's and such- body was much more bendy then, and both of us could much more easily have an adventure in a broom closet.

I would love a bj waking me up every morning- because i rarely am so selfish to just lie back and get the bj without doing more myself, just letting myself receive one without guild sounds lovely. I love the idea of anal sex though its never worked out particularly well, but various playing around in that area is quite nice, and I would love more.

I like the idea of mind sex- setting things up so I can anticipate the sex for a few hours before it happens.

[happy ending]

Variety is always good.

spice of life!!! especially spicy sex!

[Texasred]

btw, am I the only guy over 50 here

Nope.

To answer the OP, though:
Other posters have said it pretty well: I like the intimacy and taking my time, and there are pills to take care of some of the failings, but I'm in pretty good physical condition, still pretty athletic, so the sex is still very very good with my new friend, and we've found that once a day isn't quite good enough for either one of us!

So there is a very broad range of what you'd call "normal" sexual behaviors in men over 50, but "none" is not within that normal range at all!

[jvincze]

I will be 50 in 6 months, I, nor my wife have noticed any drop in feelings, passion, libido or interest. Instead of calling it sex, we call it making love. I love my wife more now than I did when I was first married 27 years ago. We have four boys and I think that the only thing that has changed is that there is more passion, We make love, not just have sex.

[Texasred]

We make love, not just have sex.

That is the best!
Lucky you.