[Explorer44]

Having no inhibitions and ensuring I look sexy that makes him "want" and "want to come back for more"..

Took me years to get to that stage, but I be happy, now just to find that man who deserves it and gives it back haha.

CW, have to admit, this has not always been my forte. Actually more the opposite - being shy. I still would never make the first move in a beginning relationship, but once I feel the trust happening....I've made great strides on the no inhibitions dept.

Unfortunately, I'm in the same boat you are in the partner dept....now, where were we rowing to?????

[Mitchel1870]

I don't think it is a factual number, least i hope not. I don't know where it came from.

[Texasred]

....ensuring I look sexy that makes him "want" and "want to come back for more"..

You surely do.

... now just to find that man who deserves it...

Make SURE you do!

[Texasred]

My hands...

[CHANDLERS WISH]

CW, have to admit, this has not always been my forte. Actually more the opposite - being shy. I still would never make the first move in a beginning relationship, but once I feel the trust happening....I've made great strides on the no inhibitions dept.

Unfortunately, I'm in the same boat you are in the partner dept....now, where were we rowing to?????

To allow them to come into our lives and DON'T LOOK lol

I've always as long as I can remember, had a sensuality about me, I cave over a passionate kiss I am shy deep down myself as well, but I said what the heck after my marriage breakup because we had sex, don't laugh, (69) days in a row, and a couple thrown in there in those days, when we met, but that was what it was sex?

And, as he thought all women were.......... I closed.

I decided that let yourself go, it's your turn 7 years of that, pftttt

I had the best 1 month relationship that was pure passion and chemistry I won't go there again even though he keeps persisiting... It's sex.

But, it showed me what I could do without a care in the world.

I also had a beautiful beginning of a relationship 7 months, I so wanted it the moment I hit America haha, to "bond, feel the soul" alas I think it was too soon, he wanted to take all those romantic roads, but had children and so they were next door and I commenced too soon, but I say, no I didn't if we can't be us? Then who are we?

Shyness is reserved now, in our lives, for the beginning of a relationship, I get where you coming from, you don't want to look like your giving too soon.

But, remember, you don't bother even giving, if you ascertain that your not going to suit, or it's chemistry only (unless your naughty for that time) lol, it's something as you believe, that you allow him to bring out in you and you in him.

CW

[Explorer44]

My hands...

don't get me started, TR!

[Explorer44]

To allow them to come into our lives and DON'T LOOK lol

I've always as long as I can remember, had a sensuality about me, I cave over a passionate kiss I am shy deep down myself as well, but I said what the heck after my marriage breakup because we had sex, don't laugh, (69) days in a row, and a couple thrown in there in those days, when we met, but that was what it was sex?

And, as he thought all women were.......... I closed.

I decided that let yourself go, it's your turn 7 years of that, pftttt

I had the best 1 month relationship that was pure passion and chemistry I won't go there again even though he keeps persisiting... It's sex.

But, it showed me what I could do without a care in the world.

I also had a beautiful beginning of a relationship 7 months, I so wanted it the moment I hit America haha, to "bond, feel the soul" alas I think it was too soon, he wanted to take all those romantic roads, but had children and so they were next door and I commenced too soon, but I say, no I didn't if we can't be us? Then who are we?

Shyness is reserved now, in our lives, for the beginning of a relationship, I get where you coming from, you don't want to look like your giving too soon.

But, remember, you don't bother even giving, if you ascertain that your not going to suit, or it's chemistry only (unless your naughty for that time) lol, it's something as you believe, that you allow him to bring out in you and you in him.

CW

I know, I know....After my long term relationship, I had a similar episode..the whole passion and chemistry thing..but, like you, that's all it was. I think that all the sexual frustration of my past relationship preceded by my sexless marriage was making me feel pretty low in the desirability department. And it gave me chance to feel somewhat attractive and flirty again..like rediscovering myself...sigh...it was nice, but as you say, I'm not interested in just that. The great thing about it was that because there wasn't the 'connectivity' of a relationship, I found that I could be much bolder and freer knowing that it wasn't a big deal..

And the passionate kiss? Yeah, I'm there with you, lady. That takes my breath away!

[pretzel]

Not sure if it's a strength or not, but I'm patient.

Making love is not a race to the finish line.

[Explorer44]

Not sure if it's a strength or not, but I'm patient.

Making love is not a race to the finish line.

Oh Pretzel, indeed, that would be a very valuable strength!

[Momof3brats]

I love giving bj's also. I think it's the absolute joy it brings my hubbie.