I read something recently (anybody surprised?
) that made a good point. If someone is really involved with and thinks constantly about bicycling or cars or sports or plants, people say the have a passion. But when it comes to sex... It's a different story.
You could be obsessive about it or you could be really, really horny and even when you have sex you aren't being fullfilled at the level you need. I don't think that is physical so much as emotional. You might want to take a look at some different schools of thought on sex and emotional connection. The Welcomed Consensus web site, Tantra, Extended Massive Orgasm, The Kissing School, deal with other approaches and attitudes towards sex.
My guess is you have directed All your needs into sex and need to learn to refocus it, spread it out, so that you can find fullfillment in other things as well.
) that made a good point. If someone is really involved with and thinks constantly about bicycling or cars or sports or plants, people say the have a passion. But when it comes to sex... It's a different story.You could be obsessive about it or you could be really, really horny and even when you have sex you aren't being fullfilled at the level you need. I don't think that is physical so much as emotional. You might want to take a look at some different schools of thought on sex and emotional connection. The Welcomed Consensus web site, Tantra, Extended Massive Orgasm, The Kissing School, deal with other approaches and attitudes towards sex.
My guess is you have directed All your needs into sex and need to learn to refocus it, spread it out, so that you can find fullfillment in other things as well.
Thanks i'll check that out for sure!
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